muslim girls and boyfriends

By telling her 'what is right in Islam' and not what is right for her, as an individual, that's how. And I said try.

Yh telling her what is halal or haram isn't reinforcing her religion....

Whether you accept it or not, you're trying to influence her as much as anybody else on this thread........

But, baby, that's using fear and pressure to try to reinforce her beliefs....

I am, I'm trying to tell her that free thinking is good.

So informing is the same as instilling fear and using pressure to reinforce her belief's. Did I say she's going to hell, fear god etc no........

But, boo you're clearly correct anyway and you're tattoo is also very classy and the polar opposite of a "tramp-stamp"

I really want to go out with someone in sixth form but because of my religion and culture -I definitely stand no chance of even talking to him

To be honest, that is a stupid comment to make, because these modern days so many muslim girls and boys are in boyfriend/girlfriend relationships together and they are happy and inlove so you can't make that comment like their going against everything they believe in.(just saying)

That picture made me lol

When you 'inform' like that, and you do it in the name of a god, by telling her what is 'haram' and 'halal', you are in fact using fear and pressure. If you had given your opinion without invoking the rules of a god it would have been different, you must see that?

You'll hurt my feelings You mean 'your' btw, and do you mean my signature? Does freaky sex scare you, Daddy? Ropes, fire, knives, candle wax, whips, paddles, floggers, crosses, suspenders, leashes? They can make for a fun time

You've got it wrong. If I had given an opinion it would have been using fear and pressure to conform to my beliefs. I gave simple factual details about what is and is not a sin in Islam. I was merely informing, it's her choice what she wants to do with it.

Looks like a tatoo. Yh not gonna call you mummy, I think granny could work for you.

Nope kinky sex is all fine and dandy, i'm more of a medieval iron maiden type of dude.

Mentioning sin at all is invoking fear! Calling one of her choices a sin is invoking fear!

They don't call me mummy, sweety, or even granny (would be weird, I'm rather young). We have names much more fun than that besides, I could write you a long list but I don't think your god would like you looking at them. They are quite naughty. Shall I PM you a list? You may need to wash your eyes out after and say a few prayers.

I didn't know you were married! I should be careful, I'm starting to fall for you. Wouldn't want to do that with a married man.

Mentioning sin isn't invoking fear though is it. Everybody sins, I would be lying if I said I hadn't. She hadn't made the "choice" yet.

Why granny is perfect, it celebrates the somewhat beautiful saggy skin look you got going. Pretty sure you wouldn't be able to speak with a bag on your head............ awks

I'm not married what gave you that impression.

i think that the advice given so far is enough and has made me realize that education is way more important than a guy

Shup?
I was joking aha

Chill fam

I really want to go out with someone in sixth form but because of my religion and culture -I definitely stand no chance of even talking to him

As a Muslim i seriosuly don't gt why people think that feeling emotions of love and happiness are seen as " haraam " surely it should be seen as a good thing ?

Exactly

That is soo flipping true..honestly why dont other people see it like that

Exactly