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How Can I Detach My Emotions From Sex ?

I'm thinking of going into sex work part time (just about 8 -10 clients) a week outside of my usual job.

Any tips on how to detatch myself emotionally during sex ? Thank you

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Just about..lol

I guess just think about the money. Nothing else but the money
Reply 2
Lose any
sort of self respect you have. You are a women I think you will find it hard , some woman who just enjoy sex can already do it though. Not even men totally detach themselves emotionally we just find it easier to move on.
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Reply 3
Original post by bittr n swt
Just about..lol

I guess just think about the money. Nothing else but the money


Thanks.
Reply 4
Original post by Mancini
Lose any sort of self respect you have. You are a women I think you will find it hard , some woman who just enjoy sex can already do it though. Not even men totally detach themselves emotionally we just find it easier to move on.



why? surely i can still respect myself.
Original post by Anonymous
why? surely i can still respect myself.


U mean u can still have self-respect after allowing multiple guys leave them nuts hanging out and hit that sugarwall. OH lord what the world has come to
Original post by Anonymous
U mean u can still have self-respect after allowing multiple guys leave them nuts hanging out and hit that sugarwall. OH lord what the world has come to


Sleeping with many men isn't losing self respect? Some people like having a lot of sex...

I guess guys who sleep around have no self respect either going by your logic then?
Original post by Novascope
Sleeping with many men isn't losing self respect? Some people like having a lot of sex...

I guess guys who sleep around have no self respect either going by your logic then?


yup sleeping around is definitely a virtue to have
Reply 8
Original post by Anonymous
why? surely i can still respect myself.


In your own mind yes. I think it depends why you wish to do this and clearly here it is for monetary gain. I doubt you can claim self respect.
Original post by Anonymous
yup sleeping around is definitely a virtue to have


So just because someone likes a lot of sex they have no self respect. Ok... Yup. Sure.
Reply 10
Original post by Novascope
Sleeping with many men isn't losing self respect? Some people like having a lot of sex...

I guess guys who sleep around have no self respect either going by your logic then?


The ordinary guy is not getting paid for it.
Original post by Mancini
The ordinary guy is not getting paid for it.


There are men who are escorts you know.
Original post by Mancini
In your own mind yes. I think it depends why you wish to do this and clearly here it is for monetary gain. I doubt you can claim self respect.


just to save money and clear my debts.
Original post by Anonymous
I'm thinking of going into sex work part time (just about 8 -10 clients) a week outside of my usual job.

Any tips on how to detatch myself emotionally during sex ? Thank you



Ugh why would you want to sell yourself to these men? Surely you have a skill or two you can run with that doesn't involve your genitalia?

To each their own.
Original post by Novascope
So just because someone likes a lot of sex they have no self respect. Ok... Yup. Sure.


bruh it is so obviously stated in the op that she wants to have sex for money. NOTHING WRONG with having a high sex drive or loving to have sex. You can have sex with you husband or wife as many times as you want. But when you do it out of the intention to get money, in my opinion, u cant have no self-respect
Original post by Anonymous
why? surely i can still respect myself.
Original post by Novascope
Sleeping with many men isn't losing self respect? Some people like having a lot of sex... I guess guys who sleep around have no self respect either going by your logic then?


lol you girls dontknow the meaning of respect. Letting guys pay for your body is filthy and not self respect.
Girls sleeping with lots of guys for free is slightly better than being an escort.
Original post by Anonymous
bruh it is so obviously stated in the op that she wants to have sex for money. NOTHING WRONG with having a high sex drive or loving to have sex. You can have sex with you husband or wife as many times as you want. But when you do it out of the intention to get money, in my opinion, u cant have no self-respect


But you don't know her reasons for resorting to something like that. If you need to become an escort to help get yourself out of debt or put food on the table, so ****ing what. Better that than rely on benefits and have people ridicule you for it.
Maybe you should educate yourself and watch a documentary or two on the world of escorting? You clearly don't know the meaning of self respect. It's called SELF respect for a reason. If someone is happy doing what they do and aren't hurting anyone, who the hell are you to tell them they have no self respect just because they do something that you don't agree with?
Original post by bittr n swt
lol you girls dontknow the meaning of respect. Letting guys pay for your body is filthy and not self respect.
Girls sleeping with lots of guys for free is slightly better than being an escort.



I agree.

Know your worth OP. You say you have debts to pay them surely you can find another way. I'd rather work in Tesco for 30 years on the side, then to lay with randoms. You should be more worried about losing your self respect, not whether or not you are going to get attached.
Original post by Novascope
But you don't know her reasons for resorting to something like that. If you need to become an escort to help get yourself out of debt or put food on the table, so ****ing what. Better that than rely on benefits and have people ridicule you for it.


If you have self-respect in the first place surely u would not have resorted to selling your body to get out of debt. Period.

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