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she kissed me 4 times, but then says no.

So I was out with this girl last night. I met her at work, and asked her out for drinks.
Unfortunately I got a little drunk, but I am a fun person when drunk and also really flirty.
So with this, I must of done well, she kissed me 4 times. They weren't on the lips.
but one was on forehead, one on the top of my head, and two on my temple area.
The thing is they were lingering and slow kisses.

But any way, I thought she liked me, so the next morning I ask her, lets go on another date.
All she said was I didnt see it as a date.
I said you kissed me four times.
She said it was a dream or someone else.

So not really sure whats going on?

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'She said it was a dream or someone else' Da***?
Reply 2
Original post by ThatGuyRik
'She said it was a dream or someone else' Da***?

I know right, she lied, but she says she wants to go out again.
Reply 3
Kisses on the the areas of the head you mention are not the type of kiss your hoping for. Mouth, preferably with tongues, is the one. Move on..
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Original post by Zarek
Kisses on the the areas of the head you mention are not the type of kiss your hoping for. Mouth, preferably with tongues, is the one. Move on..

but its a sign of interest, especially with all the other stuff she did.
Like compliment my muscles, while touching my body,
she wanted me to touch her stomach, feel her up.
We sat really close, basically like a real couple, no space between us.
held hands.

All this signs must add up to attraction?
Was she drunk too? Maybe she was touchy feely because of that and then she didn't feel the same sober?


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Original post by apple1992
but its a sign of interest, especially with all the other stuff she did.
Like compliment my muscles, while touching my body,
she wanted me to touch her stomach, feel her up.
We sat really close, basically like a real couple, no space between us.
held hands.

All this signs must add up to attraction?

Sadly not. At worst taking the piss, at best friendzone
Move on, she probably regrets it and feels awkward. You can find someone better.
She's playing games with you son.
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Original post by channies
Was she drunk too? Maybe she was touchy feely because of that and then she didn't feel the same sober?


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I would say she was tipsy, I was drunk and the bar would not serve me any drinks. She seemed fine walking.
Before I got drunk we was both quite touchy feely with each other
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Original post by Zarek
Sadly not. At worst taking the piss, at best friendzone

why, tho she could not take her hands of she,
honestly I have been in relationships with girls, who have given me vague signs like brushing my fore arm,or looking at me for a second too long.
Original post by apple1992
I would say she was tipsy, I was drunk and the bar would not serve me any drinks. She seemed fine walking.
Before I got drunk we was both quite touchy feely with each other


If you were that drunk, can you really comment on how drunk she was?


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Original post by SophieSmall
Move on, she probably regrets it and feels awkward. You can find someone better.


I think she regrets it as I did not make a move, I was so drunk that In my head, I did not want to touch anyone.
It kinda looks bad if a girl kisses a guy first.
Sounds like she wanted you to kiss her properly and you bottled it like a jabroni SMH
Original post by apple1992
I think she regrets it as I did not make a move, I was so drunk that In my head, I did not want to touch anyone.
It kinda looks bad if a girl kisses a guy first.


Probably.

As for your last sentence, highly disagree.
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Original post by Asklepios
If you were that drunk, can you really comment on how drunk she was?


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Well I was not allowed anymore drinks by the bartender as I was drunk, but only water.
She was allowed drinks, so I am guessing she was tipsy at best
Bitches be crazy bro
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Original post by SophieSmall
Probably.

As for your last sentence, highly disagree.


Yeah sorry, I made a bad statement.

tbh I should of made a move, but being drunk is not the best way for a first kiss.

I seen her around wearing one of my bracelets which I gave her on the night, I know its the one I gave her as it is a distinctive orange
Reply 18
Original post by theo1jinx
Bitches be crazy bro

certainly
Reply 19
Original post by SmashConcept
Sounds like she wanted you to kiss her properly and you bottled it like a jabroni SMH


Honestly I agree, her kissing me is her getting close.
But as I was drunk and a bit lost.

Do you reckon I could get another chance.
Get her out for drinks, do the same flirting. and this time close it

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