Sex, Virginity and Men

Please vote here for more precise options: http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=3296051

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 1

ChoccyPhilly

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Neither of these. I don't mind if she's a virgin or not and I like her to dominate just as much as I like to dominate

Reply 2

OP

Original post by ChoccyPhilly

Neither of these. I don't mind if she's a virgin or not and I like her to dominate just as much as I like to dominate

Well option 3 is closest to your choice, I think. :smile:

Reply 3

Would rather marry a virgin, but what's that BS about 'leading her'? I would rather marry a woman, not a cow.

Reply 4

Protégé

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Original post by ChoccyPhilly

Neither of these. I don't mind if she's a virgin or not and I like her to dominate just as much as I like to dominate

This exactly.

Reply 5

OP

Original post by Arkasia

Would rather marry a virgin, but what's that BS about 'leading her'? I would rather marry a woman, not a cow.

It's more aimed at those looking for traditional marriage. I didn't think anyone would want to marry a virgin without wanting to be the dominant man.

Maybe I should recreate the poll.

Reply 6

Infraspecies

Original post by Arkasia

Would rather marry a virgin, but what's that BS about 'leading her'? I would rather marry a woman, not a cow.

Why would you rather her a virgin?
Are you a virgin?

Would you want you both to be virgins?

Reply 7

ChoccyPhilly

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The only appeal there is of going out with a virgin is that they won't judge me if I'm bad lol

Reply 8

Original post by Infraspecies

Why would you rather her a virgin? Are you a virgin? Would you want you both to be virgins?

Personal preference, but I would be more than happy to marry a girl if she wasn't a virgin, as long as she was the right person for me (same with a virgin tbh).

Reply 9

Original post by 41b

It's more aimed at those looking for traditional marriage. I didn't think anyone would want to marry a virgin without wanting to be the dominant man.

Maybe I should recreate the poll.

Good idea

Reply 10

ArtGoblin

This poll doesn't leave room for men who would rather their wife be a virgin before they got together but wouldn't wait until marriage to have sex with her. Waiting until marriage to have sex is extremely unusual, whereas young men saying that they want their future wife to be a virgin when they meet is more common.

Reply 11

Infraspecies

Original post by Arkasia

Personal preference, but I would be more than happy to marry a girl if she wasn't a virgin, as long as she was the right person for me (same with a virgin tbh).

What is your reason for your "personal preference"?

Reply 12

OP

http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=3296051

here is the amended poll.

Reply 13

OP

Original post by ArtGoblin

This poll doesn't leave room for men who would rather their wife be a virgin before they got together but wouldn't wait until marriage to have sex with her. Waiting until marriage to have sex is extremely unusual, whereas young men saying that they want their future wife to be a virgin when they meet is more common.

It's an argument of semantics. Don't make me overspecify the poll.

Here's the new one. http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=3296051

Reply 14

Original post by Infraspecies

What is your reason for your "personal preference"?

No idea, same reason why I can't pinpoint my other preferences for things.

Reply 15

OP

Original post by Arkasia

No idea, same reason why I can't pinpoint my other preferences for things.

New poll: http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=3296051

Reply 16

ChaoticButterfly

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Don't care. It's becoming more unlikely that they would be a virgin as I get older anyway. I find the attitude that women who have already had sex are some how used goods deeply sexist and pretty ****. If I was a girl I wouldn't want to be with these guys who think like that.

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 17

ArtGoblin

Original post by 41b

It's an argument of semantics. Don't make me overspecify the poll.

Here's the new one. http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=3296051

It was just a really weird way of wording it.

Reply 18

Infraspecies

Original post by Arkasia

No idea, same reason why I can't pinpoint my other preferences for things.

Well no, normally preferences can be pinpointed to sensory responses which, while properly basic, still suffice as the base of most things.

Do you think its naturally, or societally ingrained for you as a preference?

Reply 19