Is this typical behaviour off a boyfriend?

Say you are in at your boyfriends and waiting to leave is it typical behavour that he shoves his hand down your pants and squeezes your bum for a while? He does this everytime. Also when cuddling too he will put his hand down there at some point.

Another thing is when we are lying on his bed its kind of expected that some sexusl activity will occur but he puts his hand down the front of my pants and makes like a tune noise while sniggering. It annoys me as i know everytime the tune is going to come lol.

But yea ive no experience really with relationships so just wondered.

Sounds like you're in a sexually abusive relationship. Sexual harassment can happen in relationships and so can rape don't forget that.

You should tell him that you don't enjoy his hands-on approach to affection 24/7 or just slap his hand away and see how he reacts.


The tune he hums before he puts down your pants actually sounds like abuse to me.

It's almost like you're trying to parody yourself at this point.

Sounds like you're in a sexually abusive relationship. Sexual harassment can happen in relationships and so can rape don't forget that.

You should tell him that you don't enjoy his hands-on approach to affection 24/7 or just slap his hand away and see how he reacts.


The tune he hums before he puts down your pants actually sounds like abuse to me.

I'm actually serious there's something sinister and predatory about the humming. There's nothing wrong with being sexual with your SO but what the OP described is rather elaborate and reminiscent of sexual abuse especially the humming before he runs his fingers down her vagina... Like I said she should communicate her disdain at his touchy-grabby hands or just slap his hand away.