How long should sex last ?

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1. The real question is how long does sex last if it's at a rapid pace. You can't count the foreplay and anyone can spin out the main event with starting and stopping and changing positions etc. I think it is quite difficult to keep under control when going at it and your partner is really enjoying it. Mind you, you do see some impressive performances watching porn, even with amateurs.

2. Doesn't really matter here, you can please yourself..

Reply 41

miser

I think it usually lasts until marriage.

Reply 42

Zarek

Original post by godivaontherocks

Depends on the guy's experience and stamina. Also if he's intoxicated...

Yep, a little bit of alcohol can help. Do you think there is much variation in stamina?

Reply 43

username1863805

Original post by Zarek

Yep, a little bit of alcohol can help. Do you think there is much variation in stamina?

Too much alcohol can also be a bad thing lol Some guys get tipsy/etc. and finish real quick. Oh... the disappointment. :rolleyes:

Yeah, there can be. But I think stamina and experience go hand in hand really.

Reply 44

william walker

Original post by Anonymous

My ex used to last ages in bed, pretty sure we had sex for about an hour and a half a couple of times

Your use of the word ages makes it seem as if he wasn't very good in bed.

Reply 45

Zarek

Original post by godivaontherocks

Too much alcohol can also be a bad thing lol Some guys get tipsy/etc. and finish real quick. Oh... the disappointment. :rolleyes:

Yeah, there can be. But I think stamina and experience go hand in hand really.

I find a couple of glasses of wine and going again slows things down nicely. But even then, and with a fair degree of experience, when my gf gets going it drives me wild quicker than I'd like.

Reply 46

william walker

Original post by Zarek

I find a couple of glasses of wine and going again slows things down nicely. But even then, and with a fair degree of experience, when my gf gets going it drives me wild quicker than I'd like.

Why closing your eyes and thinking about dying. That will calm you down.

Reply 47

voiceofreason234

Original post by Leanney

Lmfao I'm guessing you've never had sex with a female then

Original post by Smilin’ Knight

That doesn't seem like it would be nice for either party.... and rather selfish if you don't mind me saying :-/

How does 'lasting longer' affect whether the guy has fun or not? He's still going to orgasm anyway.

Reply 48

Dheorl

Original post by voiceofreason234

Lol...literally over a hundred (mostly hookers, but some ONS and girlfriend in there too).

It's a fact that most women can't orgasm from vaginal sex. It's as much a fact as the sky is blue, or fire is hot.

How does 'lasting longer' affect whether the guy has fun or not? He's still going to orgasm anyway.

It doesn't surprise me that you think most women don't if most of your experience is hookers. They're there to give you pleasure, not try and get any for themselves.

Reply 49

username1863805

Original post by Zarek

I find a couple of glasses of wine and going again slows things down nicely. But even then, and with a fair degree of experience, when my gf gets going it drives me wild quicker than I'd like.

Well lol I can tell you, red wine seems to have the opposite effect on me. But my boyfriend seems pretty chill on it.
I think that's because she's your girlfriend - you're very attracted to her and have strong feelings for her. It's the same with my boyfriend. I feel like I lose control quicker because it's with him.

Reply 50

Viva Emptiness

Lol, the idea of going at it for an hour makes me want to put Corrie on and forget about the whole thing.

Reply 51

voiceofreason234

Original post by Dheorl

It doesn't surprise me that you think most women don't if most of your experience is hookers. They're there to give you pleasure, not try and get any for themselves.

Any site on the internet will confirm most women can't orgasm through vaginal sex.

Hell I bet most women here will confirm it.

Reply 52

Dheorl

Original post by voiceofreason234

Any site on the internet will confirm most women can't orgasm through vaginal sex.

Hell I bet most women here will confirm it.

Guess I've just been lucky.

Reply 53

username1863805

Original post by voiceofreason234

WHAT? I'm sure my eyes are deceiving me but... did you just say that most women can't achieve orgasm from vaginal intercourse? I call BS on your 'experiences'.

Either I'm one of the lucky few, or you've been doing it all wrong. Depending on the angle of penetration/the girth/the friction... a woman can DEFINITELY achieve orgasm from vaginal intercourse. It doesn't always need to be about 'clit' stimulation. :rolleyes: