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Girl keeps inboxing me and then ignores my reply

She inboxes me - I reply and then she ignores me?? I don't understand why she does this. We have had many conversations and one day she'll ignore me or just ignore me mid conversation. What should I do? Why is she persistently inboxing me when she doesn't like me?

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Reply 1

Easysunday

You should try calling her if you have her number and suggesting some activities so that you both meet face to face.

Reply 2

db_F40

Original post by Anonymous

Mate,

She is being a prick trying to get your attention and waste your time. Give her a taste of her own medicine and see how she likes it

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Original post by db_F40

Mate,

She is being a prick trying to get your attention and waste your time. Give her a taste of her own medicine and see how she likes it

I have done. She snap chatted me 2 times in one day. And the next day she snap chatted again. Then I finally decided to reply and she ignores me.

Original post by Easysunday

You should try calling her if you have her number and suggesting some activities so that you both meet face to face.

I suggested meeting and she completely avoided the question. Didn't give a yes or no answer just changed topic. That's when I thought she wasnt into me but she inboxed me next day. I'm so ****ing confused.

Reply 4

db_F40

Original post by Anonymous

I have done. She snap chatted me 2 times in one day. And the next day she snap chatted again. Then I finally decided to reply and she ignores me.

I suggested meeting and she completely avoided the question. Didn't give a yes or no answer just changed topic. That's when I thought she wasnt into me but she inboxed me next day. I'm so ****ing confused.

Confront her if you know her in real life

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Original post by db_F40

Confront her if you know her in real life

Confront her and say what exactly? I do know her in real life. But we're on study leave so we only come in for exams but I will probs see her again before summer holidays.

Reply 6

db_F40

Original post by Anonymous

Confront her and say what exactly? I do know her in real life. But we're on study leave so we only come in for exams but I will probs see her again before summer holidays.

What is your relationship status with her?

Reply 7

Protégé

Don't reply to her, it's not worth the effort.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

Original post by db_F40

What is your relationship status with her?

Known her for a couple of weeks properly. Not in the same friend group. We've talked for 4-6 hours on some days. She was in one of my classes but we never talked at that time.

Reply 9

username564415

Using you for a bit of attention

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

Original post by Protégé

Don't reply to her, it's not worth the effort.

I have a crush on her.

Reply 11

SuckMeBeautiful

Maybe she has Alzheimer's.

Reply 12

Protégé

Original post by Anonymous

I have a crush on her.

Still not worth the effort, I'd rather just ignore her.

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

Original post by Nick1sHere

Using you for a bit of attention

So she doesn't like me then? What should I do?

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

Original post by SuckMeBeautiful

Maybe she has Alzheimer's.

Thanks. Great input.

Original post by Protégé

Still not worth the effort, I'd rather just ignore her.

Ugh but she's so cute :frown:

Reply 15

username564415

Original post by Anonymous

So she doesn't like me then? What should I do?

I'd ignore, if I already asked her to meet and she wasn't interested I wouldn't bother. What more do you have to gain if she doesn't want to meet up?

Reply 16

Protégé

Original post by Anonymous

Ugh but she's so cute :frown:

You could continue with this poor conversation with her but if I were you I'd just drop it.

Reply 17

username1551801

Original post by SuckMeBeautiful

Maybe she has Alzheimer's.

What's Alzheimer's? I've forgot, I'm sure I've heard of it before.

Reply 18

20Emily1998

Do you see her often at school? If so maybe ask her then?

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Reply 19

Anonymous #1

Original post by Nick1sHere

I'd ignore, if I already asked her to meet and she wasn't interested I wouldn't bother. What more do you have to gain if she doesn't want to meet up?

She didn't say no but she didn't say yes. Obviously her lack of response to my question suggested a no so I wanted to leave it there and move on. But then she inboxed me the next day (which I ignored). And she inboxed me the day after as well so that's when I thought she might actually like me. It was also her who inboxed me for our FIRST conversation. Why would she go through all this effort if she didn't like me?