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Had my 1st Gay threesome...but couldn't get it up

cut long story short, had a gay threesome, two hot lads, 18, 20 and me 18 but i don't know what happened its like i was scared or something, i just couldnt get it up (by it i mean my penis)

What happened should I be worried? Threesomes have been like my dream fantasy for a while and now i feel like I ruined my chance at it :frown:

Reply 1

unprinted

Given the experiences available on the gay scene, there will be lots more chances to have them.

How are you with casual sex in general? If it's something you've done and are comfortable with, was there something different about this one?

You don't need an erection to have a good time sexually, of course...

Reply 2

tehFrance

Original post by Anonymous

You couldn't get it up? Congratulations, you're straight! :h:

Reply 3

lewif002

Why didn't you ask one of them to put their mouth around your dick. That'd get you hard in double time.

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Reply 4

Moggart23

I always have this problem, I just go for a short stroll outside and it usually sorts it out

Reply 5

unprinted

Oh, my other questions were..

How much alcohol was involved? Drinking doesn't help: 'it provokes the desire, but it takes away the performance', as the gate-keeper said in Macbeth.

Was this three singles getting together or a couple and you, or you, a partner and someone else? All three have different dynamics.

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

Original post by unprinted

im good with casual sex in general, im the best :wink:

and nope this is my first threesome. the only difference was the there were 3 guys instead of 2....maybe i got overwhelmed?

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

Original post by lewif002

Why didn't you ask one of them to put their mouth around your dick. That'd get you hard in double time.

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hahaha i did, and it did but then like instantly went :/

Original post by Moggart23

I always have this problem, I just go for a short stroll outside and it usually sorts it out

thank god it's not just me!!! its usually a fantasy for people to be in this postion so i thought i was just weird. I'll give it a go next time

Reply 8

_Fergo

Guys you're being toooooooo descriptive lol. Don't be explicit...

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Reply 9

Anonymous #1

Original post by unprinted

YES lots of alcohol!! im kinda shy and well to be thrown into a threesome required some social lubrication.
I guess i can try it with less alcohol next time :smile:

(if there's a next time :frown:

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Three singles, what makes the dynamic a bit more awkward is that we're all friends outside of this, like it wasnt just a random hook up with 2 strangers, so i don't know, i was hoping for some of that "friends with benefits" action. Like when it was all going on, we were just laughing away and stuff. Not to mention i'm a grower not a show-er, so was a bit embarrased at penis size at that point.

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

Original post by *Stefan*

Guys you're being toooooooo descriptive lol. Don't be explicit...

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Note made, will keep it more PG :smile:

Reply 11

unprinted

Original post by Anonymous

YES lots of alcohol!! im kinda shy and well to be thrown into a threesome required some social lubrication.
I guess i can try it with less alcohol next time :smile:

(if there's a next time :frown:

Loadsa alcohol + friends issues + embarrassment = I'm not at all surprised this happened.

You've all done it once, if you can do it again (relatively) sober, ideally overnight so you have a morning erection, there shouldn't be any embarrassment and things may well go a lot better.