Made girl upset what should I do?

So, I was sitting with a girl I know in her room at a party and all of a sudden she goes to kiss me and then starts to put her hand down my trousers and undo them. I started to pull away and say 'no'. However, she continued. I left the room.And I think she got very upset. I really do like her. However, I did not want her to feel obligated to have sex with me until she is ready as I do not want her to be unhappy and regret it. I understand that I was insensitive and I would like to make it up with her. What can I do?

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sexual assault it is

Explain why you reacted the way you did

Reply 3

futbol

Mate you made a mistake. She was down for it.

Reply 4

Mannerheim

Original post by futbol

Mate you made a mistake. She was down for it.

Yes, I did. I should not have pulled away maybe. However, I thought that she might have felt pressured.

Reply 5

Mannerheim

Original post by Mad wife

Explain why you reacted the way you did

I will do. I do not wish for her to feel upset.

Reply 6

Mannerheim

I did not mean to make her upset. I just was a bit insensitive I suppose.

Reply 7

tengentoppa

Original post by Mannerheim

Well, that was stupid.

Just apologise and ask her out or something

Reply 8

Mannerheim

Original post by tengentoppa

Well, that was stupid.

Just apologise and ask her out or something

I was just worried that she was not ready, and that she felt that she was being forced or something. I will go and see her today.

Reply 9

Grantland

Her putting her hand down your pants, and continuing when you say "no" means she wants the D, she definitely did not feel pressured. Just apologise to her and follow the advice of Descartes...

Reply 10

Mannerheim

Original post by Grantland

Her putting her hand down your pants, and continuing when you say "no" means she wants the D, she definitely did not feel pressured. Just apologise to her and follow the advice of Descartes...

Lol.

Reply 11

Chicken.M.

Original post by Mannerheim

Very condescending of you. She can think for herself lmao. Have some respect

Reply 12

Jebedee

Woah hang on here. While I'd never turn down easy action unless she was ugly or obese. She has no right to be angry over that. How about if you rammed your hand down a girl's pants and got all offended when she didn't go for it. Sounds fishy? Thought so.

Reply 13

LoobyLou12

Hang on a minute! Everyone should stop calling you stupid and insensitive!
You acted in a very mature and decent way. You put her feelings and best interest above your own and I think that deserves some respect.
If she is angry at you over that then she must be mad! Explain why you did it and how you were thinking of her and I think she will be very grateful.
You wanted it to be genuine, I take my hat off to you!

Reply 14

LoobyLou12

Original post by Jebedee

I agree. If it was a girl telling this story, it would be a whole other picture

Reply 15

bottled

Original post by ChickenMadness

Very condescending of you. She can think for herself lmao. Have some respect

Personally I find it nice at least that he's thinking of other people above himself

Reply 16

Chicken.M.

Original post by bottled

Personally I find it nice at least that he's thinking of other people above himself

Thinking that she can't make decisions for herself and doesn't know what she wants lmao. Ofcourse all you arrogant white knights want to feel like heroes controlling the other person so you'l get rep for that haha.