Just turned 24. Still don't know how to ask a girl out...

I really just don't know how to put myself out there and find a girl to connect with. I have many friends, from work, university, school and a lot of these are girls who I speak to easily.

However, when it comes to relationships, I clam up. I can't talk about them to anyone and probably it's because I'm embarrased that I've never been in a relationship or have any potential partners.

How can I become more open in both asking for help, and connecting with girls?

Well me and the lads go out on the pull to pick up chicks.

Nandos ---> weatherspoons ---> any club

This has led me to sleep with dozens of girls. They usually beg me to stay but obviously I chuck them out. You could let them stick around though?

Just watch the works of Dapper Laughs if you want pulling tips.

Oi ooiii, she knows.

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Do you not reel them in like fish when on a lads holiday at magas?

I really just don't know how to put myself out there and find a girl to connect with. I have many friends, from work, university, school and a lot of these are girls who I speak to easily.

However, when it comes to relationships, I clam up. I can't talk about them to anyone and probably it's because I'm embarrased that I've never been in a relationship or have any potential partners.

How can I become more open in both asking for help, and connecting with girls?

Well me and the lads go out on the pull to pick up chicks.

Nandos ---> weatherspoons ---> any club

This has led me to sleep with dozens of girls. They usually beg me to stay but obviously I chuck them out. You could let them stick around though?

Just watch the works of Dapper Laughs if you want pulling tips.

Oi ooiii, she knows.

No OP, don't do this ^ whatever you do, don't do this!

You're trying too hard.

No OP, don't do this ^ whatever you do, don't do this!

Just don't think of it as something different. Don't try too hard, your goal shouldn't be to find a girlfriend, your goal should be to be yourself and meet new people. Maybe you're stressed about it because you're upset and you keep telling yourself you should be in a relationship. Don't worry about it too much most of the times things come up when you least expect them, especially when it comes to relationships. How to connect with girls? It depends on the girl but basically? Just don't be an ******* and be nice to them, tell them a nice comment every now and then and make them laugh, that's about it! As for the whole ''asking for help and being opened about it'' thing, you shouldn't be embarrassed, I know for sure most girls will find your situation cute and who knows maybe that's how you can connect to them!

I don't speak from experience (I'm a happy female loner) but I would suggest you sign up to some dating sites and just go on any date you can get. It doesn't matter who with. Practise dating. It's low risk, because if it goes wrong (your dates probably will be full of embarrassments in the beginning), you won't ever have to see or talk to the woman in question again. But (hopefully) with time you will gain lots of practice and confidence, and at some point it will become easy. You sound nice, good luck.