Hi all,
Basically, I hate my extended family. When I mean extended family - I mean my cousins, uncles and aunts.
Before I go into more detail, I want to give some background information about myself and my family. Basically, I would consider my family and myself above 'middle class' and although my family do have money and good credit history and what not - we don't brag about it in public. We are all well reserved and private.
In terms of my life, I don't socialize with many people due to a series of negative events occurring in my life. 5 years ago, a business partner - another relative of ourselves cheated us, and although admittedly we did not lose a lot financially - it really did knock us mentally. My parents had to get jobs at a local supermarket and petrol station to make ends meet. It made me change my whole outlook in life and taught me one thing - trust no one!
Even after my parents went back to work for supermarkets and what not, they were soon able to start up their own business with no other partnership. I feel proud being a part of it, but I am starting to feel a lot of jealously from my extended family. My extended family do have money, but they are very stingy! They never spend and always expect us to spend, even if it's their occasion. As I work during the weekdays in an office, I get tired from all the politics, stress, crap and what not - so my sister is kind enough to provide food for me when I get home.
Given my busy lifestyle, Monday to Friday - I have had relatives call my parents to do them favours, meaning that the looking after of the business is left to me. It really annoys me, because they have cars and licenses and yet my parents and in even some cases, myself - have had to take them or their relatives to places.
All in all, I am sick and tired of it and I don't have much of a case of arguing as in my culture - it is all gossip.
I don't speak to my cousins because I don't like their attitude and personality. I try and avoid them at all costs and after all they never do me any favours - when do I do like 100 for them