I HATE my first choice university

I've heard some great things about Durham from friends that are there/have been there. I think every uni has its pros and cons, even top uni's struggle to provide simple care such as drop-in sessions or swift tutor responses! If your parents didn't want you to go to Scotland, how comes you put it as your insurance- just out of curiosity! You can always go through clearing on results day, I've know people to get into Nottingham, Leeds, Queen Mary and other good uni's through Clearing.

I chose Durham after visiting in March, where I liked the people etc. The course seemed decent enough but now I really regret picking it

The things I have heard and seen about Durham- which I am well-aware is a fantastic uni- do not seem to be a good fit for me. I really want a uni that at least gives you opportunity for self-help; e.g. drop-in sessions and actual replies from tutors.

The accommodation is also appalling for me as I have a medical issue. I would either be separated from my year or sharing a room, which would ruin the experience for me. It is so expensive for what you receive I feel cheated paying that for something I know I wouldn't enjoy.

My second choice is in Scotland, which I would prefer, but my parents won't let me go because it's too far away from them.

Does anyone have any advice about what I might be able to do?

I've thought about changing to Bristol or York, assuming that I will get AAA at A-Level for an uncompetitive course.

I've found, generally, that Durham in regards to accommodating the welfare of students in college etc. doesn't seem to be that good for applicants.

Disclaimer: I know Durham is fantastic, and this isn't supposed to be derogatory at all! Just in terms of my own personal issues it has shown itself to be less-than-ideal.

Yeah as long as you achieve the required grades or close enough, then I see no reason why the Scottish uni wouldn't be happy in accepting your request to attend that uni instead!

Durham is cracking for self help. I owe so much of my mental wellbeing as an adult to the free counselling they gave me.

What other kinds of help do you think they gave? was it uni-wide or college-based?

There are facilities in both. I used both. The university are excellent, and offer all kinds of help. I was seeking help with depression. What do you need?

I'm glad that it worked for you! I have a physical condition which isn't awful awful, but it can mean I'm quite ill for a few days. I'm hoping that there might be some minor leniency if I get really sick or at least offered advice?