How are you feeling right now?

Thank you. But that's where the difficulty lies, I do nothing but be a friend, but it's those who get close to me who get hurt, and I don't know how to stop that other than to distance myself which is difficult. If I could put 'think before you do' into a more practical sense where I can actually use it at the correct instance that'd be great but it happens so fast.

Do you mean they get attached to you romantically? Or they start to rely on your more than you can (or want to) be there for them?

Some non-romantic, but often it is romantically.

Well, people can't help who they fall for. Same way you can't help if people fall for you. So that's certainly not your fault. All you can do is be as clear as possible you're not interested in them that way. Unfortunately this often doesn't work, or the friendship deteriorates. But again, not your fault.

As for people becoming reliant on you, that's on them too. Friends aren't in my opinion supposed to be 24/7 crutches. All you can do is be as good a friend as possible within reason, is someone is expecting more from you than you can give then that's unfortunate. But it happens.

So in short, I can't do anything about this and I just have to deal with friends coming and going?

My back hurts.

So does mine! Old age or something
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What can we do about our backs?

Idk we're old now. It's time to get walking sticks. Buy me one for my birthday?
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I think I need a back massage tho. Will give that a try before I buy any walking sticks

You are full of great ideas kiwi
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I see what you're doing. Buttering me up so I'll buy you that walking stick eh? Tut tut

Hahaha. You're too smart
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People get attached to me, and I reciprocate, and they get feelings and start to love me. But the moment someone else gets my attention I leave them without a second thought. I never intend to hurt people but I never think before doing. And I talk to these new people and the cycle repeats while I talk less and less to the previous, whose hearts I've been given and crush them and thrown them aside without a glance.

I've hurt so many people and all I want is friends, I can make them really easily but I don't know how to keep them when they get close. I shouldn't get close to people.

Oh dear. How do you 'reciprocate'? Just in a friendly way or ...? You can't be responsible for other people falling for you unless you go round sweeping girls purposefully off their feet

Maybe try to hold women at arm's length more? You're not a bad person