**** all the haters. OP, you seem happy; that is what matters. Some posters crticising you are utter hypocrites(it's worse if they don't realise it, bloody wastemen) and I'm happy it has not crushed your spirit!
That is all.
Why would you label some "conciencious objectors" as hypocrites? I don't understand how that can be. I doubt very much that the majority of younger end on here have been with partners of the same age gap as that. The only way they could be hypocritical is if they were out shagging as many 30 - 40 year olds or vice versa as they can.
**** all the haters. OP, you seem happy; that is what matters. Some posters crticising you are utter hypocrites(it's worse if they don't realise it, bloody wastemen) and I'm happy it has not crushed your spirit!
That is all.
You're so stupid, I can't believe you cannot see that he is evidently using her for her age, and will leave her for another youth as soon as she's not young enough anymore. There are tons of guys that do this, you're just being ignorant and pretending you don't know that this exists.
What does a 36 year old bloke have in common with a 16 year old girl? I am nowhere near 36 and I couldn't be involved with someone below the age of about 20.
Why would you label some "conciencious objectors" as hypocrites? I don't understand how that can be. I doubt very much that the majority of younger end on here have been with partners of the same age gap as that. The only way they could be hypocritical is if they were out shagging as many 30 - 40 year olds or vice versa as they can.
Lol, I know what I'm saying and I don't take it back. You didn't get my point - morality. It's a matter of opinion, yes, but it's a "I'm in bed cheating on x with y" situation (pardon the analogy). Some posters here bashing OP on a moral ground would do something 'immoral' and slide it under the table and I hope they realise how daft they are. This isn't a name and shame, so I'll be silent.
What does a 36 year old bloke have in common with a 16 year old girl? I am nowhere near 36 and I couldn't be involved with someone below the age of about 20.
He sounds like a predator.
I was just about to say that. A 16 year old and a 36 year old are at two completely different points in their life. Most people don't even know what they want from life at 16, while most 36 year olds are at a point where they want to be or are making their way there in life. Two very different mentalities, views on life and needs from life...
Will be more than happy to post some background info on us both too - how we met, etc.
Seriously though, ask me anything(:
In all honesty, I don't really like the concept. But, that's just my opinion. The fact is, all that matters is your happiness, nothing more. So, if you are truly happy with him, then I'm cool with that. But if it was me, I wouldn't go there.
You've got to understand where your mum is coming from, though. If I was dating someone even 10 years older than me (so he'd be 27) my parents would flip.
I can actually imagine my dad threatening him to back off whilst holding a cricket bat!