How does a shy uni girl get her crush to ask her out?

Just consider what kind of guy he is. If he was like me and I saw you approach me wearing a ton of make-up and an open Item of clothing, then alarm bells will be ringing. I'd just judge you as being a little bit promiscuous from first impressions.

Just think about that.

He's quite sociable, mature and smart but I don't think he has dated yet like myself so I doubt he would want an absolute vixen or femme fatale but I might be wrong. Even if he did I could never be that anyway! I already told him (and his friends as part of a group convo) that I've never been with anyone even though I'm in my 20s as I like to wait for someone special. To be honest with you I do wear a fair bit of makeup (but I'm very good at applying it so it looks natural) so I will think about that too.

Give him the 'come hither' look

....or just ask him, he'll appreciate it.

I feel really sad confessing this but I've practised that in the mirror and I'm brilliant at it my piercing blue eyes do help. However in practise I can never do it haha!

I suppose I better just smile and ask

Hmmm. But then, what kind of person are you? Have you anything in common with him?

Personally, just saying, when women employ such aforementioned tactics it makes me feel uneasy.

Play fair, give it time, have normal conversations, take things one step at a time and time will do the rest. I just think that's the best approach for both sexes.

Ooo I hope it works out for you both now! If you don't mind me asking why did you reject her? Did you not little the idea of her running back to you or something? In my case it was an accident rejection but he doesn't know that of course but I'm scared he will be mad now if I try and make my move and think that I'm messing him about!

You're right. How can I ask him without seeming too forward or making a fool of myself. I'm as inexperienced as it get a kissless virgin, who has never had a date, boyfriend or any close male friends before I went to an all girls school and I was very shy.

Nah it's cool practising. I practice in the mirror all the time and end up fancying being confident in myself.

Good plan, smile cos I bet ya have a beautiful one and get in a convo with him to ease your way into his heart.

I'm a shy and inexperienced girl and I need advice on how to get my crush to ask me out on a date

To give you some background he actually asked to see me before we broke up for the summer holidays after exams but because I'm so oblivious to male attention I didn't really realise and just laughed what he was saying off and told him if he wanted to contact me he should do so through mutual friends (rather than me giving him my number, doh!). I didn't realise at the time but he was actually always sitting near me, chatting with me, giving me hugs etc. but because I've never been around guys much I didn't know what it meant.

Can I redeem this? I'd really like to get to know him alone outside of the group setting. I know it's probably my turn to bite the bullet now but I'm scared he would have moved on over the summer.

What should I do?
How can I give him my number now without seeming forward? I'm kicking myself that I had my chance and blew it!

well to be honest, I "accidentally rejected" this girl too - she asked me if I liked her kind of as a joke one night (drinks had been drank) and I predictably responded "what? no! hahahahhh". then months later I was like "actually I do, I can't deal with pretending not to any more". then she was like "I've got a boyfriend now, like, within the last few days". then stuff happened between us and I implied that we shouldn't see each other in that way any more, and I said that because I didn't want to be humiliated if *she* rejected me. she's not with him any more, so I may ask her out again in some way shape or form but oh well I'll see what happens. from the way I see it, just like your situation, it's a matter of "I might as well - if they say no, then that's literally the worst that can happen from it, and the best thing that can happen is happiness"

Well, all the best to you anyway.

He doesn't have your number??
How long have you known him for??

I saw that you don't have male best friends, didn't you even try to have one during Uni?

Anyway best bet is to ask him. If you are feeling shy do it online.

In this situation he seems like a really lucky guy.

If you don't want to be fairly obvious (though guys can be oblivious at times) maybe wait until you see him again, talk to him a few times, then ask for his number and keep going until he asks you out or vice versa.

It sounds like he tried to ask you out and you subtly made it obvious you are not interested. That is what he will see.

You already know he likes you so just ask him outright. It couldn't be easier.