Muslims - Would you marry early?

No way!! As far as I'm concerned, you should only get married once you've found the right person. There's no rush!

Now, before someone says 'but dating his haram', I'd like to say that my family is very liberal. Also, "zina" is no big deal IMO, since I believe that it's more important to do good things!

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i am disciplined how you think i discipline my desi wife, always alert when sirens ring, very annoying. i don't know what holla is you mean korla, yeah me desi girl likes to play with tdat

Please correct the way you're typing. I'm sorry, I don't even get you.

That's what my wife said, until i (disciplined) corrected her, i think it was just sebum coming from her eye, no tear, but her parents no believe me

I certainly believe there's nothing wrong with dating I personally don't understand people who say that there is

For what, you or me?

No way!! As far as I'm concerned, you should only get married once you've found the right person. There's no rush!

Now, before someone says 'but dating his haram', I'd like to say that my family is very liberal. Also, "zina" is no big deal IMO, since I believe that it's more important to do good things!

I certainly believe there's nothing wrong with dating I personally don't understand people who say that there is

That's what my wife said, until i (disciplined) corrected her, i think it was just sebum coming from her eye, no tear, but her parents no believe me

Dating leads to zina (and trust me people will say 'my willpower is good enough i wont fall into it, but 99% of the time people do) which is a Massive sin BUT, thats why we have engagement because u can go out be together EVEN Sleep with eachother but without intercourse, i read up and checked this. So you can check if the person is right for you or not.



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right, whats wrong with you?

Yeah, I guess you do have a point. Wow your a resourceful researcher aren't you! If I need anything searched up I'll be asking you from now lool

So what you're saying is if you date, and like each other after the first meeting, why not just get engaged?

Yes. I wanna have kids
I love children

No way!! As far as I'm concerned, you should only get married once you've found the right person. There's no rush!

Now, before someone says 'but dating his haram', I'd like to say that my family is very liberal. Also, "zina" is no big deal IMO, since I believe that it's more important to do good things!

So this is primarily to all Muslim guys/girls however i know what most guys will say im more interested in the girls opinions.

we are all hormonal no doubt and thankfully we have had the will to hold them down this long. But since we have uni then finding a job then masters or whatever and all that.

Would you get married during University/Right after, given its your choice (i know some cultures get involved in someones marriage) and you like the person, even though you might both not be financially stable yet? Or would you prefer to secure a home/job ,etc first?

I know some who marry early to avoid zina for example. but i was wondering the majorities perspective on this?

EDIT: Heres my opinion,

18 now (as of the date posted) and i want to get married to someone mature if possible during Uni, finish then move in together but the chances of that are slim, so if not then ill focus for a couple years to secure a home and a job, then ill be searching so maybe around 25+

Omg not to sound crude but how can you love children so much!? Don't get me wrong. I LOVE babies but children of age 7-11 ...arrghh can't deal with them. I'm so worried because at one point of my life, I'll have to have children and I already feel sorry for them. 😂😂

exactly! I mean i tried dating once and let me tell you theres thoughts that get in your head, were going to buy a house and get married and love eachother forever! ... no. generally if they arent willing to get engaged with you then your honestly with the wrong person. I learnt it through that and although i told my parents, they sat me down and we had a chat and i spoke to the girl and said look what were doing is haram, if you want to be on the right we should just get engaged (this was about 4 months ago and i know its young i was lost in thought) and then i just get told 'ohh naah i just wanted a temporary thing'.

If your religious, i cant remember where but there was a quote where Allah says, 'Indeed if we took your suggestions this religion would perish' so trust me when islam says something theres a good reason for it.

Long story short, If they are worth the effort then you should just get engaged and know each other that way, so much easier, no blame and no shame.