Please be honest: would you date a girl who has had one night stands?

If she was past it then yeah I would

So you only date virgins? I hope you remain one till you meet your soulmate, otherwise that is hypocrisy.

2 years clear now I would never go back I'm just not cut out for that emotionally.

I've had 5 to be precise over the course of 5 years, although my last was over 2 years ago (I'm 26 now). Two were with strangers and three with guys that I knew and I only had 'full' intercourse with one. I was single during all of them and no longer speak with the guys that I knew. Also for the record I am disease free.

If I'm honest I had these because I had low self esteem and wanted to feel close to someone and didn't feel worthy of anyone long term. My way of thinking was I'm not good enough for a relationship only to be used... That someone could only feel sexual desire for me but never anything meaningful so I thought I should take what I can get. I deeply regret it all and hate my past self for it so much. I've learnt from the experience and I take responsibility for what happened to me. I have been abstinent since I feel sick when I think about the things I did. I'm in therapy for general anxiety and we sometimes work through this too.

I just feel like a used up wh**e. Please don't talk about how casual sex can be fun etc. because I can't speak for anyone else but for me it was very unhealthy to let people into my body who didn't give a damn about me.

So guys what do you think? Would you run a mile? Or would you consider dating a girl like this? Give me you thoughts and don't hold back!

No, I'm not a virgin but I wouldn't date a girl who has had one night stands; this is a personal preference.

Are you influenced by religion or is that just your own personal values? I was brought up Christian myself and feel bad for abandoning my values. I know God forgives but people usually don't.

Couldn't give a ****, if I'm dating a twenty six year old I expect her to have had a bit of history. I'd be much more worried about your apparantly unhealthy attitude towards the experience. I have a liberal attitude towards sex (I'm still into monogamy), and I'm not sure we'd be compatable.

Would you mind that I've had one night stands, didn't regret them, and would have them again if I was single?

Cool. Let's have one now.

So you would date a virgin. I don't know any deflowered women who are still sexually active but not having one night stands or friends with benefits. I actually don't see how having sex outside of marriage but not having one night stands is anymore noble or moral or chaste than an actual ONS.

I am a High Church Anglican. God only forgives if you seek forgiveness. What sort of Christian were you? I can forgives you for your actions, but it means you are an immoral person for undertaking such actions.

I understand your point though I see a vast difference between sex with a random stranger (you'd never see again) and sex with someone you care for/committed to.

I understand your point though I see a vast difference between sex with a random stranger (you'd never see again) and sex with someone you care for/committed to.

Excellent: I'll hold the rope at one end, you grasp the other, and we'll pirouette (dis)gracefully towards the middle, leaving a trail of garments in our wake.

Oh my goodness, that is so sad. When I had low self esteem as a teenager, I actually did the opposite. I refused to be used and ended up becoming celibate. Perhaps it's masochism so that's why I feel it could be because of low self esteem that I cannot be intimate with someone.

No, never..

Yes I would