As I've pointed out a few replies back, 'trivialises' is a word that carries little to no meaning in any debate. Has she fundamentally set the debate on how to prevent and punish rape back by any significant amount of time by using words whose interpretation by you speculates that they're normalising rape? No, she hasn't. So let's get that out of the way, please.
I see nothing wrong with calling them 'normal people who make a few bad mistakes.' As I've said before, she did not mean that, as her edit to the first post and subsequent replies clarified. The fact that you continue to pull her up on your original interpretation says more about you than about her.
Nobody is saying that rape is normal - she's saying that most rapists are normal people in the sense that the phrase 'normal people' sounds to everybody but people like you who're determined to be offended by just about everything. They're just words on an Internet website. They don't mean what you think they mean and, contrary to what you might assert, they haven't just swung the needle from 'rape is wrong' to 'rape is not wrong' in
anybody's mind. Does
that make sense to
you?
This has to be the most long-winded attempt to avoid admitting you've contradicted yourself I've seen to date. I have not stated or implied that any of the underlined are the case. You've brought clinical diagnoses into it but you have to understand that diagnoses are themselves a grey area and holes through which people can slip. For you to take advantage of that to make the ludicrous point that somebody with mental health problems doesn't have a mental illness is rather irritating.
I think you're confusing the popular term 'psycho' with actual psychopathy, which, according to Google, is a general term for mental illness or disorder. Do you have any evidence to suggest that most rapists don't have jobs, families and commitments? Because it's difficult to survive long enough (parents are included in 'families'
to sit at home plotting your next attack like somebody who was '****ed up in the head' might. I'm not saying none of them doesn't have a job or family or commitments but that most do. Ironically, your own example of the New York university should have told you this already: most of the perpetrators in those cases would have been students or (in fewer cases) university staff, both of whom are ordinary people with ordinary lives.
After that wall of text I've subjected you to, if you want to keep insisting that mere acknowledgement that most rapists are normal people with normal lives prior to becoming rapists, go ahead and do so. I'm not going to reply to it again as most of the arguments have been exhausted.
Actually, it does. If they're not mentally ill, then, until they've committed the murder(s), they are 'normal people who make a few [one, if it's a single murder] mistakes.' You're being emotional about it instead of actually reading the text. It's not saying anything that's unreasonable.
I find it difficult to believe that it could be a static number in different places given that 'rape capital' is an actual term used to describe places with very high incidences of rape. However, I don't know that so I'm willing to be convinced either way. By the way, the first source is about a single university in New York, not the entire state of New York so it's not really representative of New York either.
Hmm, I'll admit I confused that with one of the others. It doesn't show that '20 percent of women will be raped in their lifetime.' I really wish you'd get this bit right - I just devoted quite a bit of time to this. Happened does not equal will happen. That's making a huge assumption and one that you're duty-bound to state before making a claim of that sort. I'd have no problem with it if you said 'assuming that this trend continues, 20 percent of women will be raped in their lifetime' if there was a trend in the first place. But no, you keep repeating that claim over and over citing sources, after complaining about being asked for them, that don't prove, and
can't prove it.
As for whether there's a trend, that would depend on you providing sources that the number is static across state and national lines.
I'm not saying it's not static, before you get angry about that. I'm just asking for evidence.
I can't believe you've made such a stupid error. Three of the things you've listed in your magic 20 percent figure are not-rape; you then go onto say 'it shows that 20 percent of women have been raped.' No, it doesn't. It shows that 20 percent of women have suffered attempted sexual assault, attempted rape, sexual assault or rape. It may be that the whole 20 percent are concentrated into the rape category but there's no evidence of that. Furthermore, there's no evidence that this is indicative of what will happen in future so, no, it doesn't show that '20 percent of women will be raped in their lifetimes', which is my critique of it.
I hope that made sense. I'm not going to continue writing essay-sized posts if the most basic points continue to elude you and you struggle to keep the argument civil.