A friend who is coming to my country to study asked me if I thought local guys would find her attractive. She is very small build, slender, long hair and a big smile. So naturally I wondered why she would ask this, with what seems to be a winning combination these days. Petite, long or big hair and bubbly personality- all the guys.
I am told I'm not big, but it's getting to the point I feel that way. I am 5,7" (~170cm), size 10, maybe a 12 on the top half sometimes, 34DD in the chest, healthy waist hip ratio, and my legs are not slim pins but not horrendously fat. Shoulders are quite broad (even my mother says so) but means shimmying ability is ace!
But with the whole tiny but adorable trend, does the above description of myself now qualify as "big girl" nowadays, and anything above like size 14-16 oversized to guys? I've been told I can be cute, but feel like I have to date a man MUCH bigger than me to feel small. And even then, it's a challenge to find someone. He doesn't have to look perfect or have muscles, six pack etc.
Sorry if it's another complaining rant, but it'd be good to hear opinions from different people. And guys, what would you say are the most attractive combinations?