I really like him but it annoys me that he always wears the same clothes!

Cross bridges when you get to them!

Only read about half of the OP ,1 paragraph whining about some guy's clothes was enough, didn't need to read 3 to reach my conclusion.

I'm not worked up about it I said I still like him and I'm happy that he likes me too.

So misunderstood

It surprises me that this issue is important enough to you for you to make a thread! It is so, so unimportant. He likes you and I can see from your post that there's a lot of good things about him which are drawing you to him. His family might be well off but he might be of limited means himself. Or he might choose to spend his money on stuff other than clothes. Or, it might be that he's only got a few clothes in his wardrobe which he thinks are good enough to wear when he knows he's going to see you, the person he likes. Later on when you know him better you can perhaps broach the subject if it's still worrying you. But by then maybe you'll have learnt to love his lack of interest in his clothes. You've pointed out yourself that you don't like vain men. Go have fun!

I'm not worked up about it I said I still like him and I'm happy that he likes me too.

Never knew clothing was an issue in relationships...

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This isn't about fashion if you read my post I'm actually turned off by men wearing fashion it seems kind of feminine to me. I just wish he swapped his t shirts more that's all I've known him for a year and literally only ever seen him wear one of 2 t shirts.

You used the word annoyed and continued to write a long post about it...which suggests otherwise.

Though it's good you like him regardless.

He probably has multiple pairs of the same t-shirt. Like me lol.

Yes I do find it annoying but in my opinion it's not the same as being worked up: I'm not upset by it and it doesn't define how I feel about him and it is by no means a dealbreaker there is so much more I value about him. I wrote a long post to explain the situation and about him as a person too not just his wardrobe - or lack of

But indeed I will agree this has more to do with me than him. Part of the reason I wrote this thread is I don't want to end up being a nagging, controlling b and I was raised in a house where my father dictated what my mother should be, dress and act but that's a whole other issue and as some else pointed out I'm getting way too far ahead of myself.

This actually feels like you're talking a lot about me.

Personally, I had very few clothes I was actually willing to wear outside at this time last year. Luckily now I have been able to gather up more, but I'm still very limited. I knew people would have noticed the lack in variety of clothes, but it was better than wearing the others I had.

I suppose, when you two are going out, a bit into it, like someone else said, buy yourself clothes, or something anyway, and suggest some to him. Don't make it sound as if you're disappointed in his variety, or lack of, just make it sound like it's about trying new things (if that makes any sense. If not, just ignore all of it.)

Hmm that's a interesting point perhaps they are all that he is comfortable in I can't believe I never thought of that I feel so silly now.

Oh yes I will definitely deploy some tact and be indirect when addressing the issue I would never make it into a criticism or attack on him

Never knew clothing was an issue in relationships...

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it makes you very shallow ye lol. He's probably laid back though. If he is then you can buy him what you want him to wear and he'l probably wear it without caring much lol.

Does he regularly wash those clothes though?

I'm not going to lie, it would bother me just a little. I like a man that puts a little effort into what he wears, obviously not too much. I wouldn't get too worked up over it op, it's not that big of a deal.