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Is it bad that I don't want a gf but just want a f* buddy,

I'm going to be straight up here, that's all I want. I'm not looking for love atm.

Another question I have is, how do I get someone to be my f buddy. Never had one before. I'm a good looking guy whos in great shape., not trying to be arrogant at all. but girls I come across seem really conservative. Maybe im doing something wrong ?
Don't worry, you're not alone. Just be clear about what you want and don't promise anything you're not prepared to give. If the worst comes the worst try tinder haha
It's why porn is so popular.
Its normal :smile:
nah loads of people want that.

Just make friends with girls and be flirty. Or just ask em when you've got to know em a bit lol.
Original post by Anonymous
I'm going to be straight up here, that's all I want. I'm not looking for love atm.

Another question I have is, how do I get someone to be my f buddy. Never had one before. I'm a good looking guy whos in great shape., not trying to be arrogant at all. but girls I come across seem really conservative. Maybe im doing something wrong ?


you basically need a prostitute. simples.
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Original post by samina_ay
you basically need a prostitute. simples.


This isn't really the best country for that sort of thing.
Original post by Jebedee
This isn't really the best country for that sort of thing.


Lol, how would you know?
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Not at all, I'm the same. You've got to be ruthless tho. You can't call/text her casually, when she gets a message from you she needs to know what time it is. Cut out the emotions and you should be fine, she'll catch on quite quickly.
Original post by Jebedee
This isn't really the best country for that sort of thing.


Why isn't it?

Original post by samina_ay
you basically need a prostitute. simples.


"Simples" because it's 2012. A prostitute is not wanton.
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Original post by JOO93
Not at all, I'm the same. You've got to be ruthless tho. You can't call/text her casually, when she gets a message from you she needs to know what time it is. Cut out the emotions and you should be fine, she'll catch on quite quickly.


And the kisses and cuddles too?
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Original post by Anonymous
I'm going to be straight up here, that's all I want. I'm not looking for love atm.

Another question I have is, how do I get someone to be my f buddy. Never had one before. I'm a good looking guy whos in great shape., not trying to be arrogant at all. but girls I come across seem really conservative. Maybe im doing something wrong ?


I have 2 questions for you!

1) Why did you ask this question?
2) Why do you think it might be bad to not want a gf, but want an f buddy?
Original post by samina_ay
Lol, how would you know?


The average run of the mill British prostitute will be very poor in the looks department and a high possibility of a drug addiction. You'll be lucky to have a full set of teeth. Outside my old office I worked at in Spain was a popular spot for street walkers and they were drop dead gorgeous, super model standard and no more expensive than what your average John would be paying in UK for for an old hag.

The rest of the world follows suit pretty closely. Only in countries like UK and USA can such grotesque beasts actually find punters.
Original post by JOO93
Not at all, I'm the same. You've got to be ruthless tho. You can't call/text her casually, when she gets a message from you she needs to know what time it is. Cut out the emotions and you should be fine, she'll catch on quite quickly.


I call and text casually.

Original post by kka25
And the kisses and cuddles too?


I also do cuddles lol.
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Original post by Anonymous
I'm going to be straight up here, that's all I want. I'm not looking for love atm.

Another question I have is, how do I get someone to be my f buddy. Never had one before. I'm a good looking guy whos in great shape., not trying to be arrogant at all. but girls I come across seem really conservative. Maybe im doing something wrong ?


Mate I dunno what city you live in but both of my cities (London and Sheffield) are filled with people (girls aswell) that only want NSA sex and fun... you should move to one of those.


Me on the other hand.... I just want somebody to love <3

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