is anyone here not attracted to white girls/guys?
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Original post by Blue_Mason
Quite a number of red flags in your posts, but I shall remain to be civil.But they tend to mature and learn how to be a respectful woman.I do not like in how you have just pinned such negatives on just black girls, when quite frankly it just boils down to individual personality and social dynamics.
And that is the question to be asked as quite a number of bm/ww pairings tend to not last for valid reasons, as the majority of black men are meant to be with black women.
And that is the question to be asked as quite a number of bm/ww pairings tend to not last for valid reasons, as the majority of black men are meant to be with black women.
I can't believe you just said that.
Original post by Iwouldliketoknow
i bet you arent black as any black person knows what is really the deal about what white girls are like vs black girls. That is why divorce rates are highest amongst black men and white women
Original post by Iwouldliketoknow
the stereotypes are disgusting and what is worst is that you most likely aren't black. black girls are part of the 2nd largest race in the world and you haven't met them all and you say that. white girls are less entitled my fam and i had a good chuckle over that
To both of you... I'm mixed race (my parents are mixed race, and it's my grandparents who are black and white). I know the deal with blacks and whites. It's enough to see when the family come together and you see the "prim and proper" of one side of the family, and the "louder, more passionate" side of the other.
I'm also female, so my dating of black women and white women is limited to say the least. Bearing this in mind, I also have a number of black and white female friends, and generally it's the black girls who get into arguments in clubs, the black girls who are acting like they are from the ghetto with their nail extensions and "init" phrases, generally even the way they carry themselves and the way they speak - more loudly etc..shows generally a more aggressive attitude. It's the white girls who are looser, don't tend to confront people as they would rather bitch behind their backs...etc.
The people I hang out with are usually from north or south London, so I guess there's a particular type of person who lives there...? I'm not sure. Obviously I can't meet all the black girls in the world when I make my statements, that would take way too much time and I haven't met them all - I am basing this on my own experience .
Original post by stargirl63
I can't believe you just said that.
To both of you... I'm mixed race (my parents are mixed race, and it's my grandparents who are black and white). I know the deal with blacks and whites. It's enough to see when the family come together and you see the "prim and proper" of one side of the family, and the "louder, more passionate" side of the other.
I'm also female, so my dating of black women and white women is limited to say the least. Bearing this in mind, I also have a number of black and white female friends, and generally it's the black girls who get into arguments in clubs, the black girls who are acting like they are from the ghetto with their nail extensions and "init" phrases, generally even the way they carry themselves and the way they speak - more loudly etc..shows generally a more aggressive attitude. It's the white girls who are looser, don't tend to confront people as they would rather bitch behind their backs...etc.
The people I hang out with are usually from north or south London, so I guess there's a particular type of person who lives there...? I'm not sure. Obviously I can't meet all the black girls in the world when I make my statements, that would take way too much time and I haven't met them all - I am basing this on my own experience .
To both of you... I'm mixed race (my parents are mixed race, and it's my grandparents who are black and white). I know the deal with blacks and whites. It's enough to see when the family come together and you see the "prim and proper" of one side of the family, and the "louder, more passionate" side of the other.
I'm also female, so my dating of black women and white women is limited to say the least. Bearing this in mind, I also have a number of black and white female friends, and generally it's the black girls who get into arguments in clubs, the black girls who are acting like they are from the ghetto with their nail extensions and "init" phrases, generally even the way they carry themselves and the way they speak - more loudly etc..shows generally a more aggressive attitude. It's the white girls who are looser, don't tend to confront people as they would rather bitch behind their backs...etc.
The people I hang out with are usually from north or south London, so I guess there's a particular type of person who lives there...? I'm not sure. Obviously I can't meet all the black girls in the world when I make my statements, that would take way too much time and I haven't met them all - I am basing this on my own experience .
To be honest that is more of a reflection on the type of company you keep more than anything else. The fact you would make lazy generalisations off of your experience further supports your lack of sophistication. If your eyes were really open it's not hard to discover that white women are capable of being just as tacky - you only need to see any reality show ever created to confirm that. You have a racialised view of the world which smacks of the level of ignorance one would assign to someone with little education or cultural awareness. Step outside of your small London bubble and you might learn something.
Original post by Blaq_widow
To be honest that is more of a reflection on the type of company you keep more than anything else. The fact you would make lazy generalisations off of your experience further supports your lack of sophistication. If your eyes were really open it's not hard to discover that white women are capable of being just as tacky - you only need to see any reality show ever created to confirm that. You have a racialised view of the world which smacks of the level of ignorance one would assign to someone with little education or cultural awareness. Step outside of your small London bubble and you might learn something.
Tbh, I think I actually posted this in the wrong thread, I think this was supposed to go in the "black men dating outside their race" thread. In saying that, I stand by what I say.
However, going back to the question of this thread, if you feel that white women are just as tacky, that might be the reason why some aren't attracted to white women. People of any race can be tacky or sophisticated based on a number of things. However, when considering black girls, in my experience, those who are sophisticated are usually the very religious girls, or those who's families are very strict (Nigerians come to mind).
Yes of course I'm going to comment on my experiences, how else could I form an opinion if not on experience, right?
At the end of the day, it's the person, not the race - which we can all agree to. There are exceptions to everything.
Original post by stargirl63
I can't believe you just said that.
To both of you... I'm mixed race (my parents are mixed race, and it's my grandparents who are black and white). I know the deal with blacks and whites. It's enough to see when the family come together and you see the "prim and proper" of one side of the family, and the "louder, more passionate" side of the other.
I'm also female, so my dating of black women and white women is limited to say the least. Bearing this in mind, I also have a number of black and white female friends, and generally it's the black girls who get into arguments in clubs, the black girls who are acting like they are from the ghetto with their nail extensions and "init" phrases, generally even the way they carry themselves and the way they speak - more loudly etc..shows generally a more aggressive attitude. It's the white girls who are looser, don't tend to confront people as they would rather bitch behind their backs...etc.
The people I hang out with are usually from north or south London, so I guess there's a particular type of person who lives there...? I'm not sure. Obviously I can't meet all the black girls in the world when I make my statements, that would take way too much time and I haven't met them all - I am basing this on my own experience .
To both of you... I'm mixed race (my parents are mixed race, and it's my grandparents who are black and white). I know the deal with blacks and whites. It's enough to see when the family come together and you see the "prim and proper" of one side of the family, and the "louder, more passionate" side of the other.
I'm also female, so my dating of black women and white women is limited to say the least. Bearing this in mind, I also have a number of black and white female friends, and generally it's the black girls who get into arguments in clubs, the black girls who are acting like they are from the ghetto with their nail extensions and "init" phrases, generally even the way they carry themselves and the way they speak - more loudly etc..shows generally a more aggressive attitude. It's the white girls who are looser, don't tend to confront people as they would rather bitch behind their backs...etc.
The people I hang out with are usually from north or south London, so I guess there's a particular type of person who lives there...? I'm not sure. Obviously I can't meet all the black girls in the world when I make my statements, that would take way too much time and I haven't met them all - I am basing this on my own experience .
Yeah I said it, and the same applies to Asian, white and other racial groups.The majority of people are meant to be with their own.
Attraction isn't about race or ethnicity, it's about the Masculinity and Femininity Spectrum. It is about how feminine or masculine their energy is.
Original post by Blue_Mason
Yeah I said it, and the same applies to Asian, white and other racial groups.The majority of people are meant to be with their own.
So if the majority of people are meant to be with their own, what constitutes as the minority of people, and why is it okay for these to date outside their race?
Original post by stargirl63
So if the majority of people are meant to be with their own, what constitutes as the minority of people, and why is it okay for these to date outside their race?
Exactly what I would like to know.
Original post by Blue_Mason
It is not about being worthy, as I couldn't even translate that into a sensible response, but I do have the right in wanting to be protective of my people.I only care when it is of people of my race who are intermixing.
It really depends, but in most cases,I would be against it, as the majority of white women are not capable of raising a biracial child without inflicting a level of self hated.
It really depends, but in most cases,I would be against it, as the majority of white women are not capable of raising a biracial child without inflicting a level of self hated.
Simply put, you cannot be "protective" of an entire race whilst simultaneously trying to suggest individuals of your race cannot have certain sexual relations/children of other races. That is not protecting, that is limiting. This debate is nothing to do with your right to want the best for inidividuals of your race, but since we are on this topic, most can definitely say that you have no right to interfere with their freewill.
You cannot make a generalisation about all white women and how they parent. E.g. if a white woman raises her child in a black community then it is unlikely that the child will experience self-hatred (I'm assuming that you think this will be inflicted by caucasians, judging by your previous comments). Therefore your argument is irrelevant and unlikely to be corrects as a lot of white women won't fit into this category.
So in a way (even if it is not your intent, although it may be) you are applying rules to one race which aren't applied to others, thereby suggesting that not all races are equal. You are also trying to repress black freedom, when shouldn't you be trying to do the opposite? I am guessing that if this ideal were to be forced a lot of black individuals would not be very happy, rightfully so.
Furthermore, claiming that no other race can mix with your race does insinuate a level of superiority (and therefore racism), and there is no way this can be argued against, to rational minds. If you think you can refute this without being racist then I'm not sure how! It is mind boggling to say the least.
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Original post by stargirl63
So if the majority of people are meant to be with their own, what constitutes as the minority of people, and why is it okay for these to date outside their race?
The minority being those people who choose to intermix, which is an expected factor in a multicultural society.
Original post by alicia_x
Exactly what I would like to know.
We can be limited for the right or wrong reasons, but I know what is best for my race.As I can speak for my race, and be protective of it.If I were to seriously date an Asian woman and her family would not be okay with it, then I would respect that.If the minority of black people choose to intermix, then cool.
Why is it wrong that I think the majority of people should stick with their own, when it comes to marriage and children?
Ive crushed on white guys in the past so i cant really say... i think mainly i prefer asains tho
but...
but...
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Original post by Blue_Mason
The minority being those people who choose to intermix, which is an expected factor in a multicultural society.
You said that it's okay for the minority of people to intermix, so I want to know why you think it's okay. Obviously there is going to be some, agreed - however this doesn't make it "okay" in your view does it? And what if the minority become the majority of people who intermix - would that not be acceptable to you? Why?
Original post by Blue_Mason
We can be limited for the right or wrong reasons, but I know what is best for my race.As I can speak for my race, and be protective of it.If I were to seriously date an Asian woman and her family would not be okay with it, then I would respect that.If the minority of black people choose to intermix, then cool.
Why is it wrong that I think the majority of people should stick with their own, when it comes to marriage and children?
Why is it wrong that I think the majority of people should stick with their own, when it comes to marriage and children?
The reason why an Asian woman and her family wouldn't be okay with it is due to family traditions and cultures - in saying that, that is the view of a previous generation. And in future generations, I feel this will become less and less of an issue as immigration and ethnic diversity will happen - it's inevitable.
The reason why I personally feel it's "wrong" for you to think that is because there is no reason for you to feel that way. Why is it "best" for your race. What are you "protecting" your race from? If we do choose to intermix, what are you afraid will happen, or result in? I'm trying to comprehend the exact reason you feel the way you feel.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200601/mixed-race-pretty-face ---> check this article out, there's actually a number of benefits, only a few mentioned here, which mean that it's potentially advantageous to have a genetic mix of some sort. If anything, it's a preference to be mixed ethnically, physically, visually, and medically.
depends. but in general the ones im seeing either are too heavy or use to make fakery makeup etc
i think a lot of asian /eastern girls do go for white men, because they think they will be successful/rich eventually
Original post by Blue_Mason
We can be limited for the right or wrong reasons, but I know what is best for my race.As I can speak for my race, and be protective of it.If I were to seriously date an Asian woman and her family would not be okay with it, then I would respect that.If the minority of black people choose to intermix, then cool.
Why is it wrong that I think the majority of people should stick with their own, when it comes to marriage and children?
Why is it wrong that I think the majority of people should stick with their own, when it comes to marriage and children?
I would reply, but another user has raised all the questions that I've wanted to ask. Please answer them.
Because it's suggesting that other races aren't good enough to mix with the black race, that's why it's wrong. There is no "right or wrong" reasons, as you say. No one should be limited in who their sexual partner is or who they want to have children with. End of. No offence, but you as one (older) person, don't represent your entire race. I'm not sure my cousin would agree with you, that's for sure. So once again, you're wrong.
You're also probably not even in touch with the younger black generation. Many, many black inidivduals would not hold your views, and it would be wrong to try and make millions of people conform to your ridiculous (in my opinion) ideals.
Original post by Anonymous
I would reply, but another user has raised all the questions that I've wanted to ask. Please answer them.
Because it's suggesting that other races aren't good enough to mix with the black race, that's why it's wrong. There is no "right or wrong" reasons, as you say. No one should be limited in who their sexual partner is or who they want to have children with. End of. No offence, but you as one (older) person, don't represent your entire race. I'm not sure my cousin would agree with you, that's for sure. So once again, you're wrong.
You're also probably not even in touch with the younger black generation. Many, many black inidivduals would not hold your views, and it would be wrong to try and make millions of people conform to your ridiculous (in my opinion) ideals.
Because it's suggesting that other races aren't good enough to mix with the black race, that's why it's wrong. There is no "right or wrong" reasons, as you say. No one should be limited in who their sexual partner is or who they want to have children with. End of. No offence, but you as one (older) person, don't represent your entire race. I'm not sure my cousin would agree with you, that's for sure. So once again, you're wrong.
You're also probably not even in touch with the younger black generation. Many, many black inidivduals would not hold your views, and it would be wrong to try and make millions of people conform to your ridiculous (in my opinion) ideals.
This post was made by myself; accidently made anonymous.
@Blue_Mason you also said/implied that certain black inidivudals will have interracial relationships in a multicultural society because "it is expected of them." Not to be a b*tch, but is it possible that the reason you're so against interracial dating within your race is because you are bitter for whatever reason?
Original post by stargirl63
You said that it's okay for the minority of people to intermix, so I want to know why you think it's okay. Obviously there is going to be some, agreed - however this doesn't make it "okay" in your view does it? And what if the minority become the majority of people who intermix - would that not be acceptable to you? Why?
The reason why an Asian woman and her family wouldn't be okay with it is due to family traditions and cultures - in saying that, that is the view of a previous generation. And in future generations, I feel this will become less and less of an issue as immigration and ethnic diversity will happen - it's inevitable.
The reason why I personally feel it's "wrong" for you to think that is because there is no reason for you to feel that way. Why is it "best" for your race. What are you "protecting" your race from? If we do choose to intermix, what are you afraid will happen, or result in? I'm trying to comprehend the exact reason you feel the way you feel.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200601/mixed-race-pretty-face ---> check this article out, there's actually a number of benefits, only a few mentioned here, which mean that it's potentially advantageous to have a genetic mix of some sort. If anything, it's a preference to be mixed ethnically, physically, visually, and medically.
The reason why an Asian woman and her family wouldn't be okay with it is due to family traditions and cultures - in saying that, that is the view of a previous generation. And in future generations, I feel this will become less and less of an issue as immigration and ethnic diversity will happen - it's inevitable.
The reason why I personally feel it's "wrong" for you to think that is because there is no reason for you to feel that way. Why is it "best" for your race. What are you "protecting" your race from? If we do choose to intermix, what are you afraid will happen, or result in? I'm trying to comprehend the exact reason you feel the way you feel.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200601/mixed-race-pretty-face ---> check this article out, there's actually a number of benefits, only a few mentioned here, which mean that it's potentially advantageous to have a genetic mix of some sort. If anything, it's a preference to be mixed ethnically, physically, visually, and medically.
I would not like for the majority of my race to be diluted and to not be culturally assimilated.They will always be issues within inter pairings,even within the next few decades.
I might be attracted to other races, but deep down I must stick with my own.
Original post by stargirl63
I'm aware that other races have pointed noses, however the thread was asking about white people.
But since when are pointy noises even a trait associated with white people? Blue eyes, yes. Blonde hair, yes, but pointy noises?
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