Do guys find it weird when girls make the first move?

There's a new guy at my school and I'd really love to talk to him because he seems really lovely and smart. I've only walked past him a couple of times and we've never spoken face to face, but his Facebook page has been suggested to me and I kind of want to add him. I just don't want him to think I'm weird for going to all the trouble to find him and make the first move, help please?

Why would he think it's "weird"?

Nope. Girls need to start doing it far more often. Confidence is hot.

All in all, go for it!

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You're sure it wouldn't put him off? I'm also worried that if I go ahead with it before we've spoken in person, he might feel awkward which means we'll never speak if that makes sense?