Do men ever get jealous that women can get laid so easily?

I disagree to an extent. Yes, a guy may have to do a little more, but usually (even if girls don't admit it) girls like sex, and they like doing it. It's not the case that a guy has to be a wizard in bed just to make a girl moan.

maybe i'm just hard to please , but to elaborate, for guys it's usually purely physical whereas most girls need to at least be mentally turned on to derive pleasure from the act

Oh... I see. No but seriously, men and women can both be quite carnal in bed and both need the visual and mental stimulation really. I certainly do. Also, and this is crucial, just because a guy came, does NOT necessarily mean you made him cum. He could have had said mental images/stimulation to help him finish the job.

What? no way...

Oh... I see. No but seriously, men and women can both be quite carnal in bed and both need the visual and mental stimulation really. I certainly do. Also, and this is crucial, just because a guy came, does NOT necessarily mean you made him cum. He could have had said mental images/stimulation to help him finish the job.

my mind is blown- pun intended

Yep, I'm afraid it's true. Trust me, especially with a condom on, penetrative sex feels OK but it's very overrated. You need to add something to the mix if you want him to climax, so the exact dirty talk he likes, different sex positions, I mean really work for it if you don't want his mind to go blank. haha

In fact I'll refer to Chris Rock on this one, it's around the 5:40 mark

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lmao, you girls think guys are so easy and we're so easily pleased. sigh. At least I've taught you something.

His mind to go blank? lmao I certainly have learnt something...

Well it is a given but I just didn't think it was that easy for a guy to become so uninterested during sex. Hmmm you learn something new everyday.



Blame porn. All the men look easy. Two thrusts and they are squirting across the room -__-

lol men and women are the same in the regard. You actually have to be skilled and work for it if you want a very good reaction. You can't be complacent and assume you can just do nothing.

Not really, I mean porn is the worst example because they're on set all day and need buffer girls just to stay hard. They're filming some 30 odd min video and taking hours to do so. I guess what you've seen is a short edited video of a longer version which makes it look like the guy cums really quickly? In any case I haven't seen that in porn. :/

I disagree actually, generally speaking women don't make themselves cum. They either cum or they don't or they fake it. Also I think with women it's all or nothing, they are either really into it, or not at all. They don't switch half way and think about another guys penis to make themselves cum(maybe they do but it doesn't sound right). That's why it was surprising when you wrote men may cum but it's not necessarily your doing.

And yes it's edited but that's what I am saying, porn makes men look easy. Of course in real life that's not the case. But also it seems to be a stereotype women are harder to please during sex therefore it's easy to assume the opposite is true for men. Also, many guys make themselves sound easy to please tbh (that's not me being sexist just pointing it out), but again men have been portrayed as being more sexual creatures through out history sooo that also contributes to they way they talk and think about sex.

Well some women (I mean we're generalising about both sexes here but anyway) may help the process along by thinking about someone else, maybe even celebs lol. Maybe not another guy's penis, but perhaps their body/ a scenario with them or something. But yes some women also fake it too.

Yeah but it's fairly obvious it's edited, like the jump cuts are extremely obvious, especially when it moves from them ****ing to suddenly the woman on her knees ready for the money shot.

Hmmm, well I guess you have a point there. Men may say they have 'blue balls' or whine about how hard it is to please women etc, but it's all an exaggeration to get empathy. In the case of blue balls it's to get pity sex (pathetic really) and with the whining it's just, well, whining. haha Also yes, stereotypes being embedded into society almost become a self-fulfilling prophecy. They're seen as such a norm that even guys who don't feel up for sex feel pressured into doing it otherwise they're 'gaaaay' or 'not a real man' etc. On performance, it seems if men cum too quickly then they're easy; if it takes too long then there's something wrong with them, and if they don't cum at all then suddenly they're not attracted to women/gay. So the big difference is men can feel guilty if they don't cum because of how they might be perceived and see it as their fault. Women just see it as a man's fault if they don't cum because it's seen as 'the man's job' as it were. lol

Well some women (I mean we're generalising about both sexes here but anyway) may help the process along by thinking about someone else, maybe even celebs lol. Maybe not another guy's penis, but perhaps their body/ a scenario with them or something. But yes some women also fake it too.

Yeah but it's fairly obvious it's edited, like the jump cuts are extremely obvious, especially when it moves from them ****ing to suddenly the woman on her knees ready for the money shot.

Hmmm, well I guess you have a point there. Men may say they have 'blue balls' or whine about how hard it is to please women etc, but it's all an exaggeration to get empathy. In the case of blue balls it's to get pity sex (pathetic really) and with the whining it's just, well, whining. haha Also yes, stereotypes being embedded into society almost become a self-fulfilling prophecy. They're seen as such a norm that even guys who don't feel up for sex feel pressured into doing it otherwise they're 'gaaaay' or 'not a real man' etc. On performance, it seems if men cum too quickly then they're easy; if it takes too long then there's something wrong with them, and if they don't cum at all then suddenly they're not attracted to women/gay. So the big difference is men can feel guilty if they don't cum because of how they might be perceived and see it as their fault. Women just see it as a man's fault if they don't cum because it's seen as 'the man's job' as it were. lol

That is so true. So very true! But if the roles were reversed and the women didn't cum, he wasn't very good at it. Hmm... very interesting, never thought into it like that before.

I agree, it is whining lol.

I don't understand: which man doesn't come in sex? It ends when he comes..

lol no it doesn't! Not always...that's just how porn ends

That is so true. So very true! But if the roles were reversed and the women didn't cum, he wasn't very good at it. Hmm... very interesting, never thought into it like that before.

I agree, it is whining lol.

Haha, well I'm glad I could show you a new way of thinking about the situation. xD

It's like as guys we're pressured to cum in a Goldilocks time-frame which is convenient from all parties involved, or else we're ridiculed. :/

m8, if you cannot finish, there is something seriously wrong......

Not really. One woman could be having sex with different men.


Say we have 100 people. 10 women and 90 men. 1 woman could be having sex with say 20 different men. That woman has sex more times than each of those individual 20 men.

m8, if you cannot finish, there is something seriously wrong......