Any older guy

okay so i am 16/17 and I have dated a few guys that are my age, except they are not mature, and i enjoy talking to older guys (over 20) and i was wondering if any of you knew what i should do.

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Reply 1

liquidconfidence

You may find someone your age who is mature and so on. You can find someone who you really connect with despite them not being older than you, it more depends on their personality and ambitions.

Reply 2

physicst

TSR is full of desperate people (Recommended )

Reply 3

kka25

How do you mean by 'mature' here OP?

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Reply 4

RainbowKiwi

Just because someone is older, it doesn't mean they are mature. I'd be worried if someone over 20 dated a 16 yr old :erm:

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Original post by kka25

How do you by 'mature' here OP?

what are you trying to say? and by mature i mean someone who isnt in a relationship for sex, someone who you can talk to, listens, have fun with, someone you can move on with and a future, rather than a teenage relationship where people just have a girl for show

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

Original post by RainbowKiwi

Just because someone is older, it doesn't mean they are mature. I'd be worried if someone over 20 dated a 16 yr old :erm:

tbh ive dated a 28 year old, the only reason it didnt work is because he moved across the world because of work, however we still talk

Reply 7

karl pilkington

why don;t you just go out and try and meet older guys

Reply 8

dash52

Original post by Anonymous

okay so i am 16/17 and I have dated a few guys that are my age, except they are not mature, and i enjoy talking to older guys (over 20) and i was wondering if any of you knew what i should do- or are there anny older guys here- i dont like being single

Pick me

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

Original post by karl pilkington

why don;t you just go out and try and meet older guys

i try but i dont know where, in london i cant get into any clubs or bars

Reply 10

Oh no not again!

Original post by Anonymous

Well age is just another number, someone could be 25 and not have the same life experience or intellect as someone 10 years his junior.

You can't judge someone based solely on age, age doesn't equate to maturity.

But it's up to you if you feel the need to date older men, then that's you. Just make sure he doesn't wear dentures or is on pensions. You know what I mean. :eyeball:

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Reply 11

samina_ay

TSR is full of old guys, you'll find someone :lol:

personally don't advise a 16/17 year old dating someone over the age of 20

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

Original post by dash52

Pick me

PM'd you x

Reply 13

Masih ad-Dajjal

What do you have to offer me?

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

Original post by Masih ad-Dajjal

What do you have to offer me?

what would you like? How old are you

Reply 15

liquidconfidence

Original post by Anonymous

tbh ive dated a 28 year old, the only reason it didnt work is because he moved across the world because of work, however we still talk

I really doubt that this is the only reason it didn't work...

Reply 16

karl pilkington

Original post by Anonymous

i try but i dont know where, in london i cant get into any clubs or bars

Well maybe just join clubs or society or wait till you are eighteen can't be that far away.

Reply 17

RainbowKiwi

Original post by Anonymous

tbh ive dated a 28 year old, the only reason it didnt work is because he moved across the world because of work, however we still talk

Did u engage in sexual activities with this 28yr old? There's a huge difference in the mentality of a 28yr old and a 16yr old - you're still a child compared to him and men around that age soz :/