Anyone given up on love?

You're still a solid 3/4ish years away from the average marriage age..

Just soldier on bro, you'll be good

Sorry if it is a generalisation but I think girls catch feelings quicker than guys when it comes to stuff like that. Lust sometimes turns to deeper feelings because of the intimacy and stuff

Girls do generally get attached quicker but men tend to keep their feelings inside so to be honest you can't really tell what a guy is feeling until he wants you to know. He could be in deeper than the girl but is not saying it. Girls are normally open books, guys normally aren't unless you know them really well.

Fair enough, but that's also the reason why some girls get frustrated and just draw back . And why we always think that it's just mind games with some guys.

I just think it's the main reason why things are so complicated and the girl usual has to ask the guy, what he thinks and such.

Who'd want someone my age who's never even been on a date?

I haven't even kissed someone sober before it's only ever been a drunken snog in a club

If the girl draws back then I don't think she really liked the guy that much. if the girl really likes the guy she'll stick by him until he feels comfortable telling her his emotions.

and it's a good thing if a girl ask the guy but sometimes it can be a bit annoying and nagging if you do it too much. Believe me, I've nagged enough of my friends to open up and they get annoyed.

Sorry but i have to disagree, sometimes the guy just acts distance when the girl is starting to like him. But then i think situations such as sex doesn't really help . or what do you think?

Yeeesss (for now)
No point trying to force find something, just be awesome and genuine and let it find you
For now, i'm just going to focus on my own life

Yeah but girls do that as well. For some reason we like to make the person who is attracted to us, work a bit harder in getting us. (Playing hard to get is one of the oldest games)

Sex is the easy bit, relationship is the harder part.

Who'd want someone my age who's never even been on a date?

I haven't even kissed someone sober before it's only ever been a drunken snog in a club

A lot of women. This whole experience thing is a myth, I've actually been told by someone before that they find guys who've never had any one an attractive prospect..

Are you 25? Sorry I don't know your age. Someone would probably find that endearing. Myself it wouldn't matter if the guy had never been kissed or dated- I'd probably find that hot

It's just the matter of being in the right place right time (I know it's cliche and annoying) but it's true.

My friends say the same but i'm a bit skeptical of their advice because they would just say what I want to hear. It's the reason why i'd never ask them for relationship advice even though they'd probably be able to help. They're all girls in long term relationships. I literally don't know another single person lol



I'm nearly 25. Think part of the problem is that guys are expected to initiate things whereas i'm painfully shy. Even with my closest friends i'll never arrange to meet up or anything i'll always leave it for them. I was always too nervous to even plan something for my birthday because I was worried nobody would turn up. I'd be a complete mess on a date

I know loads of women, most people my age in this position can barely look a girl in the eye but it's the opposite for me.

My friends say the same but i'm a bit skeptical of their advice because they would just say what I want to hear. It's the reason why i'd never ask them for relationship advice even though they'd probably be able to help. They're all girls in long term relationships. I literally don't know another single person lol

I'm nearly 25. Think part of the problem is that guys are expected to initiate things whereas i'm painfully shy. Even with my closest friends i'll never arrange to meet up or anything i'll always leave it for them. I was always too nervous to even plan something for my birthday because I was worried nobody would turn up. I'd be a complete mess on a date

I know loads of women, most people my age in this position can barely look a girl in the eye but it's the opposite for me.

Aw hun. That's the thing though. Guys shouldn't be expected to make the first move. I know it's easy to say 'be confident' but I don't actually know what to say. But on a date, I think you'd be fine as long as you were comfortable and relaxed.
Maybe ask the female Friends for advice because they know you in real life. Sorry I couldn't help more.

Aw hun. That's the thing though. Guys shouldn't be expected to make the first move. I know it's easy to say 'be confident' but I don't actually know what to say. But on a date, I think you'd be fine as long as you were comfortable and relaxed.
Maybe ask the female Friends for advice because they know you in real life. Sorry I couldn't help more.