Why do guys say they hate "SLUTS"

That's what people say but I've often seen that the "nice guys" are just pretending and think with their dicks lol (no offence )

For example older guys in workplaces who are married or have longterm gfs, most people think they are respectable but a lot of them chase the 20something secretary even if she's not flirting with him

Not all of them.

Hm, again, I'm not sure to what extent I agree with that. Certainly no more than I would agree with the same thing said about older women in workplaces?

Well usually because these type of girls just sleep around with guys a lot, obviously all girls that wear makeup and short clothes are not like that, but the look has been prejudged by todays society

Why does it annoy you if they're not bothering you though

I don't think men are more likely to do it but men are often in positions of power more because women take time off to have kids and stuff. I've seen more men do this but maybe that's the reason (in my 20s so been in a lot of jobs)



So wearing any makeup is bad?

I don't think men are more likely to do it but men are often in positions of power more because women take time off to have kids and stuff. I've seen more men do this but maybe that's the reason (in my 20s so been in a lot of jobs)

Why did you quote my post with something completely different?

Because it's became socially acceptable to put women down and be judgemental towards them, even when you don't know them, and it's bs because as a guy do I really have a problem with a woman showing off her body? Lol no, never have. And there's a massive double standard that exists between genders.

There are plenty of men that wear fake eyelashes, make up, were tons of fake tan, take steroids and go to clubs in short sleeve t shirts begging for some attention for their orange roided up bodies, like those people from Geordie Shore. Yet no-one has a problem with that.

Fair point.

I think most men just see it as harmless flirting (as women would), but if they are in a serious relationship then I doubt the majority would actually do something to jeopardise their relationship.

No obviously not i mean them girls that wear lots, like you can tell and short clothes

Probably because of our evolved psychology. Women who have multiple partners offer less paternity certainty to mates, which makes them a risky bet from gene's eye view - "your" children may be someone else's.

This is why virginity and sexual purity are much more valued in women than men across cultures and throughout history. Attitudes towards sex have changed hugely over the course of the last few generations in Western culture, but these evolutionary echoes can still be heard.

By slut I do not just mean a girl who sleeps around, which some people call a slut, but one who wears revealing clothes, flirts a lot, wears certain makeup like smoky eyes or red lips, posts sexy pictures on Instagram etc.

A lot of guys call these "slutty" and look down on them

But then they reward those women by treating them better whether by choosing them for relationships or even in the workplace (most of my friends who work have older male bosses who favour the girls at work who flirt with them etc.)

Im in my 20s and I am definitely not one haha, but "nice ladylike" girls who are the opposite of "sluts" ALWAYS get bullied in both the work place and real life, and guys don't actually like them for girlfriends. Women cant win

I'm not a feminist but what do you think

How short is short?

I've seen a lot of cases where it isn't just "harmless flirting" (not with me, other people in the workplace) haha. And favouritism shown. But were going off topic sorry

But then as someone else said it's hypocritical for guys to shame "sluts" and then treat women like that better in practice?

That was the OP really

You said earlier they annoy you



Interesting to see if this is the attitude all guys have

I have found a lot of guys who are "anti slut shaming" feminist types though just want women to sleep around more and show their bodies more really

By slut I do not just mean a girl who sleeps around, which some people call a slut, but one who wears revealing clothes, flirts a lot, wears certain makeup like smoky eyes or red lips, posts sexy pictures on Instagram etc.

A lot of guys call these "slutty" and look down on them

But then they reward those women by treating them better whether by choosing them for relationships or even in the workplace (most of my friends who work have older male bosses who favour the girls at work who flirt with them etc.)

Im in my 20s and I am definitely not one haha, but "nice ladylike" girls who are the opposite of "sluts" ALWAYS get bullied in both the work place and real life, and guys don't actually like them for girlfriends. Women cant win

I'm not a feminist but what do you think

They hate confident women who are sexual beings like they are it's so funny how they want women to suppress themselves and be submissive beings only like lol I'M A SLUT and I love it and I love my sisters who are out there everyday stunting on all of you

Not at all. Sexually available females are highly valued by males. Just look at how primate males all compete to groom the females when they are in estrus. Sexual availability is an invitation that it could be worth your while to be nice to me. So men like this...but not in their wives!

This is the basis of the madonna / whore dichotomy.

When I read this post, I imagined you clicking your fingers whilst bobbing your head from side to side


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and


'na-ah gurlfriend'