And I'm not really a remotely envious person. But I've realised that if you live your life free of close connections, there's something you don't have- in fact even if you did have a relationship this still may happen-
Namely, that let's say someone you encounter, acquaintance or friend of a friend, for example, shows you a window into this...it may be enhanced by the fact that they themselves intrigue or attract you,.they were in love and lost someone, the person died. You can see how deeply loved someone is by their partner how much intensity and shared memories they had. It doesn't have to be that they lost them like this or even lost them at all, but can you think of an example yourself where you see how intensely someone was loved and you just rue your detachment, or doubt you could inspire that in someone, and really want it in your life badly, especially from someone you treasure and admire. Let's say 'on paper' you're fine, you don't have horrendous faults or ugliness or whatever, but you doubt whether you can have this. Is this a classic case of a how I, or you(if you have experienced this) always think the grass is greener? That there were opportunities for something that could have been like that in my life? That I am falling for the fact that the grass is greener and what is not in front of you and available, what has some distance can take on more power and mystery, or it it that I don't have the intensity? Or is it that I am taken in by sentimentaility, the type conveyed on the web, even if it is about losing someone, and is it a classic case of internet envy and mystery being enhanced on the web via online image and not being with the person day to day?