Dating one of your best friends ex girlfriend?

Anonymous #1

Is this accpetable or no?

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Reply 1

Kevin De Bruyne

Original post by Anonymous

Is this accpetable or no?

Talk to your best friend, see how they feel about it, and make a choice then.

Reply 2

samina_ay

That's such a sly move in my opinion, ask your friend

Reply 3

loveleest

Original post by Anonymous

Is this accpetable or no?

I just think it is so wrong tbh. I guess different people have different views but to me it's just...wrong.

Reply 4

John55

I don't see why it would be unacceptable, I mean, he's not dating her anymore is he?

If I had an ex girlfriend, and one of my friends started dating them, I'd just be happy for them, your friend's being selfish if they start complaining about the fact that they used to date your current girlfriend.

Reply 5

581371

Nah. Unless they broke up on good terms, I wouldn't do it..

Reply 6

PusE

Nope.

A few years ago, a friend of mine who fancied me didn't ask me out and actually stopped talking to me because I was his best friend's ex girl friend. I respect that dude, such a loyal friend :smile:

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Reply 7

Anonymous #1

What if they were only together for like 1 month ish

Reply 8

kayleyyy

Never ever, that's your best friend's ex. I'm sure that would be breaking a written code somewhere :/

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

Original post by kayleyyy

Never ever, that's your best friend's ex. I'm sure that would be breaking a written code somewhere :/

But I fancy her sooooooooooo sooooooooo much

Reply 10

RiahDawson

Original post by Anonymous

Is this accpetable or no?

100% unacceptable. You're most likely going to lose your best friend over it.

Reply 11

belalusw

If my best friend knew about it and was okay with it, I don't see why not..

Reply 12

Anonymous #2

My best friend had a ONS with someone I dated, we didn't speak for about 6 months afterwards.

Wouldn't do it.

Reply 13

Anonymous #3

I really never get this
Id have no issue with my mates going out with any of my exes even if we didnt end on good terms
At the end of the day they might be right for eachother why should my not being right for them make a difference
I think id only hve issue if the ex had cheated but that would be for my friend not ok the principle that the person is my ex
(Im female btw)

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

What if he cheated on her?

Reply 15

username402722

I think it's wrong, in a way against what I would see as my moral code, as it were.

Though not as bad as if it was your brother's ex girlfriend or wife. It did no good for Henry VIII or Ryan Giggs, for example.

Reply 16

math42

Yeah I'd say it depends on the friend. My girlfriend now was with my best friend before but my best friend is the sort who doesn't give a **** in that regard. I mean even if he doesn't like it, it's not necessarily wrong, you just might not have a best friend anymore...

Reply 17

Anonymous #3

Original post by Anonymous

What if he cheated on her?

Thats what i mean, id only have an issue if there was a history of cheating but that wouldnt be a problem based on one being an ex and one being a friend it would be an issue that the ex is a cheater and in no way good enough for anyone nevermind a friend

Reply 18

Moura

ONLY if you talk to your friend about it and they're ok. they could possibly say it's fine just to be a good friend even though it would kill them inside though.

i think just don't ever go there.

Reply 19

m3m

An ex is an ex is an ex is an ex. They're an ex for a reason. It means they're out of their life for good. So why should the best friend have a say in it? Nothing wrong with it imo