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Hi there, I am a first yr UCL student and often find myself being alone which i dont like. I am staying at home so i spend all weekend at home and feel bad/terrible about it. Wht should I do??And i really want to find tht one
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Hi there, I am a first yr UCL student and often find myself being alone which i dont like. I am staying at home so i spend all weekend at home and feel bad/terrible about it. Wht should I do??And i really want to find tht one




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Join a society?
Original post by Anonymous
Hi there, I am a first year UCL student and often find myself being alone, which I don't like. I am staying at home so I spend all weekend at home and feel bad/terrible about it. What should I do??Also, I really want to find that one.

Are you nervous about going out to events etc?
You could try joining a few clubs and gradually building up your confidence; as you make a few friends, it will come more easily to you.

Plus, I always like to remind lonely people that everyone on TSR is always up for a chat and to make you feel welcome:smile:

GOOD LUCK!
Go to the pub with some course mates.
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Are you nervous about going out to events etc?
You could try joining a few clubs and gradually building up your confidence; as you make a few friends, it will come more easily to you.

Plus, I always like to remind lonely people that everyone on TSR is always up for a chat and to make you feel welcome:smile:

GOOD LUCK!


I've joined a few societies, but whever i go i tend to just sit there and be lonely
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Original post by sleepygirl
Go to the pub with some course mates.

I dont drink :frown:
You just need to be more confident :smile:
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I dont drink :frown:

Could you not go to the pub and take a flask of tea or just have some water or something?
Original post by Anonymous
I dont drink :frown:


You don't need to drink. You need to find something other people tend to do to socialize and join them. I don't really drink much, but I can just sit there with a soda and chat and no-one cares that I'm not drinking alcohol.
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You don't need to drink. You need to find something other people tend to do to socialize and join them. I don't really drink much, but I can just sit there with a soda and chat and no-one cares that I'm not drinking alcohol.


Do you chat with friends or people you haven't met before? Do guys approach you too?
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Do you chat with friends or people you haven't met before? Do guys approach you too?


no.. btw im a guy

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