This is going to be a super long post, and I really don't know what I'll talk about, so if anything in this triggers you, I am super sorry.
Where to even start. First year university student, living away from home. Massive introvert. History of self harm, and blowing off any help given to me.
Basically I am a huge freaking mess. Second or third week into the semester, I was so unsure of what was going on, and what I was doing that I went to the toilets in the union and cut myself. So then that snapped me out of it, and I ran pretty much the whole way to my general practice. They tried to turn me away saying I'd have to come back in 5 hours, and only got me an emergency appointment when I broke into tears at the reception. I was offered 6 sessions of CBT, starting the week after. Two of those are already up...and I haven't gotten anywhere. I have no sort of diagnosis, nobody has even really asked questions about how I'm feeling. But tomorrow I have another one, after having to wait 3 weeks. Yay for waiting. I love waiting! (sarcasm)
The massive problem? I'm not telling the doctor the truth. It's not even a concious decision. Because in front of people I am a completely different person. I'm confident, chatty, sure of myself probably a certain amount of cocky as well. And I have no freaking connection to that person. Obviously I'm aware that it's me. But it's like watching someone live my life for me and it's freaky. But 'she' won't tell the truth. Because it's the fear of telling the truth. At no point does any of this sound healthy, and I'm scared they'll have to tell my family.
The problem with the way that 'I' act in front of people is that how the hell would they believe that this same girl is a mess? That she has pretty much 0 friends, doesn't get on with her flat mates because they are all confident and loud, is too afraid to actually do anything in her free time, has frequent breakdowns where she cannot do a single thing other than curl up on the floor and cry. That she is willing to hurt herself. University by no means triggered this. I have been messed up for years, but living alone means that it's not okay. I haven't cooked anything for weeks, because that means using the kitchen for more than 10 minutes, and I might bump into someone. My personal hygeine isn't terrible, but I can't say it is great either. I'm eating way too much junk food and sugar, because sugar is the way I decide to cope.
I just feel like I'm losing my mind, and when I do breakdown I have no idea what is going on. I'm scared there will be one where I do something stupid. Already I've skipped lectures because the idea of being around people has been too much, and then when I go home I get angry with myself for 'giving in'. I wish I could get things across to the doctor, but I never will. I lied my way out of therapy before, and this is going the same way, and I can't afford for that to happen.
And then there is doubt. Serious doubt about if I'm actually ill, or if I am attention seeking. Which makes no sense, because I won't tell anyone about any of this stuff, and I'm terrified of them finding out. But I keep wondering if I'm acting, if I'm not actually ill at all, and only pretending. Maybe I'm just being a horrible attention seeking person. I don't know. I have no idea what to do. I can't handle any of this and I don't know where to turn. I'm honestly scared.
I'm sorry