Guys would you be annoyed if your girlfriend did this?

I know 2 people in my floor, one guy and one girl, that get on great. The guy is single but the girl isn't but her boyfriend doesn't treat her that well. They have been mistaken for a couple a few times. They have had play fights in their rooms which they get quite close to each other in in. Everyone thinks the guy definitely likes the girl. When they were both drunk last week they were both laid on his bed facing each other holding hands but nothing happened between them. They watch films quite often in his room just the 2 of them but when her boyfriend asks who she is watching the films with she didn't say his name and just changed the subject.

Guys if this was your girlfriend would you be annoyed at how close they were and would you get jealous? How would you react if you found out how close they were and does it sounds like the girl possibly likes the guy? She isn't the type to cheat and she does talk about how great her boyfriend can be though.

maybe he should treat her a bit better for a start... but if he really trusts her he shouldn't be worried, she should be able to have guy friends plus if she was drunk and nothing happened id say he doesn't have too much reason to worry maybe he should talk to her about it

I know 2 people in my floor, one guy and one girl, that get on great. The guy is single but the girl isn't but her boyfriend doesn't treat her that well. They have been mistaken for a couple a few times. They have had play fights in their rooms which they get quite close to each other in in. Everyone thinks the guy definitely likes the girl. When they were both drunk last week they were both laid on his bed facing each other holding hands but nothing happened between them. They watch films quite often in his room just the 2 of them but when her boyfriend asks who she is watching the films with she didn't say his name and just changed the subject.

Guys if this was your girlfriend would you be annoyed at how close they were and would you get jealous? How would you react if you found out how close they were and does it sounds like the girl possibly likes the guy? She isn't the type to cheat and she does talk about how great her boyfriend can be though.

Guys if this was your girlfriend would you be annoyed at how close they were and would you get jealous? How would you react if you found out how close they were and does it sounds like the girl possibly likes the guy? She isn't the type to cheat and she does talk about how great her boyfriend can be though.

Yeah but does he 'mistreat' her or does he 'have a petty argument which is natural in any relationship' mistreat her.

Yeah but does he 'mistreat' her or does he 'have a petty argument which is natural in any relationship' mistreat her.

If I was the boyfriend, I wouldn't care, because I'm awesome, and if my partner cheats on me, she's not the person I thought she was, and she's out of my life.

If I was the guy, I would back the **** off.

If I was the girl, I would either break up with my partner and sleep with the guy, or decide to stick with my current boyfriend and back the **** off.

If I was the neighbour, I'd get Netflix.

That covers all the bases, no matter who you might be in this situation.

kind of confused could you like rephrase sorry haha

Yeah but does he 'mistreat' her or does he 'have a petty argument which is natural in any relationship' mistreat her.

also, if you don't know the boyfriend well why do you think that he mistreats her? this may be the message she communicates deliberately.

He does mistreat her, he makes comments and remarks towards her that really are cruel and do hurt her. She has told me some of them and I have heard him say others to her when he came up to visit.

If this is just two random people on your floor then why are you making a thread about them; let them get on with it.

If the guy friend is you, just admit to it, because pretending it isn't is really irritating

then no wonder she's going off with this other guy all the time? What can he expect i don't know the ins and outs but from what i heard she could do with getting rid of someone who treats her like that, maybe if your her friend you could talk to her

I have tried but it is hard because she just says that we never see or hear about the nice things he does. In my opinion he could do a lot of nice things but it would never compensate for the comments he has made towards her and how he makes her feel but it is hard to get her to listen,

I have tried but it is hard because she just says that we never see or hear about the nice things he does. In my opinion he could do a lot of nice things but it would never compensate for the comments he has made towards her and how he makes her feel but it is hard to get her to listen,

Could you give an example of what cruel things he is saying to her?