I like and have sex with my GF's younger sister.

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Reply 20

James Milibanter

Original post by Unown Uzer

You don't have to break up with your GF. Who knows? She may be up for a threesome!

I blame porn for this stuff. Why do so many guys think girls are up for incest?

Reply 21

jammy4041

what's with all the threesome comments? That's disgusting.

OP, there's no easy way to deal with this. Especially since your soon-to-be-ex-girlfriend has slept in the....juices...of your moment of passion with her very own sister. :eek:

You, and your GF's sister had a moment of passion, and you will both pay a dear price. Both of you should have realized that anything inappropriate was an absolute, cast-iron no-no. You'll lose a girlfriend, and your girlfriend's sister will lose her older sister -- someone who would have been their role model growing up, and your girlfriend will lose her little sister -- someone who she would have trusted and bonded strongly with as they were growing up. Even worse, their parents will have to deal with the meltdown of an entire family, you will be ostracised. It's not like you could make something work with the other sister, because of this entire mess.

You both screwed up.

On your girlfriend's bed, while she went out for one hour no less.

Still. I suppose being honest could be a start. You may all need to seriously engage in therapy.

Original post by selfteaching

tell her the truth, which should go something like this-

"i'm an a s s h o l e and don't deserve you"

Well said. That avatar is so appropriate as well.

Reply 22

Unown Uzer

Original post by James Milibanter

I blame porn for this stuff. Why do so many guys think girls are up for incest?

Can you give me a rep? Normally, these kinds of comments get a good amount of rep if it is on the first page of the thread.

Reply 23

whorace

Original post by Unown Uzer

Can you give me a rep? Normally, these kinds of comments get a good amount of rep if it is on the first page of the thread.

asking for rep is like incest

Reply 24

jeremy1988

I would say don't tell her what you and her sister did. Tell her you're interested in a girl at your school or work and that you're not into her any more. That way, she'll still break up with you and resent you, but at least it won't affect her relationship with her sister.

Then maybe 10 years later, they can find out what happened when they're drunk and they've both moved on, and it won't have the same impact as it would now while she's still attracted to you.

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 25

redferry

Original post by WoodyMKC

Oh m8 don't, you'll get a lecture on bad use of grammar and promotion of gang culture which will all somehow tie in to the fact that you're not a (rather hilariously ironically confrontational) hippie.

And don't even mention the m word :wink:

Reply 26

royal1990

Absolutely disgraceful OP in my opinion. Honestly, that is probably the most deceitful and dirty thing you could ever had done in the context of your relationship with your girlfriend.

I suspect the idea of wanting/having the 'forbidden fruit' was more appealing than settling with your girlfriend and fighting off the advances of her sister.

The problems didn't start when you had sex with her, I believe, (going from what you stated), they started on the incidence before when you say you had a brush with her but stopped short of sex. This temptation was what had set the precedence for having sexual intercourse with her. You had a taste of the forbidden fruit, and now you've owned the fruit.

Unfortunately, the forbidden fruit because a novelty after that, and any such fruit you had before because rotten. One bad Apple usually makes the others bad too...

In an ideal world, you should have avoided any such contact with the Sister in the first instance. You simply did not do this. You had sex with her sister, you/she got what you both wanted. Though sometimes we can't have it all- and for that the price is to be paid.

Apologies for my stern words, but your destructive conduct has left me seething.

Her sister, at some point, will crack and will confess to her. Their sisterly love, although fragmented and somewhat destroyed, will power through, and she will undoubtedly feel guilty. There is no way that her sister will not crack or otherwise be found out. Its only a matter of time for you-- if I were you I wouldn't step foot in her house.

I should imagine her parents would want to throttle you equally. If I were the father, and I found out you'd ******** both of my daughters and completely emotionally destroyed them, I'd have more than a few stern words.

Its your choice; you either confess all and gain some level of dignity. Or you allow it all to unfold and look like the biggest jerk to ever enter their lives and that of the family.

Its likely your mates will call you the ultimate "lad" and praise you for this. In reality, it is repulsive, from my perspective, if my girlfriend had slept with my younger brother- I undoubtedly would be up for a double murder charge.

Your call OP.