1) mental health problems aren't always life long. They can get better, and even if you always have them, your symptoms can get to the stage where they are more manageable. Many, if not most, truly great artists, writers and musicians have suffered from a mental health problem at some point.
2) If your weight is bothering you, try to eat a healthy diet and exercise regularly. Olive oil can greatly reduce the appearance of stretch marks.
3) you aren't ugly. It's the people who call you that who are. They are bullies and absolutely vile. It isn't true. Never believe that you are ugly. Not even for a second.
4) The number of girlfriends you have had is no indication of the quality of person you are. Dating lots of women will never make you happy.
5) women don't hate you. You have been unlucky in love thus far, but who knows? Next week you could meet the love of your life.
6) And? Many people older than you post here. It is the sort of site that is very hard to leave!
7) You haven't missed out on the prime of your life. Casual relationships are really not that great. You still have a lot of life left to lead.
8) They don't know what they're missing.
9) Many women don't like sex. I'm a sex indifferent asexual, so someone who doesn't like sex is preferable to someone who does. Romantic relationships don't have to include sex to be healthy and fulfilling. You weren't just doing it wrong.
10) when something bad happens, take a step back and think: why is it bad? What can I do to make it better? Breathe deeply. If you feel anxious, I find counting backwards from 20 in French helps as it focuses the mind on something else.
11) see above. Also, distract yourself. I find reading books helps.
12) If your job makes you happy, stick with it. Nobody else has to live your life. Ignore the people who tell you to get a paid job. Although, if you want one, try looking for similar jobs. Tell the place you work for that if they have any paid vacancies for your job, could they please tell you.
13) Sorry about that. It's sad that your uni experience was ruined by a dickhead.
14) Again, sorry about that. Kissing loads of girls isn't the be all and end all of uni.
15) Try getting involved in a social group for something that your interested in. Facebook will have some on, I'm sure
16) try venting to a diary. That way it is completely secret, nobody else can criticise you. You can write down anything with no fear of being judged. If ever you really need to talk to someone, call samaritans. Feel free to PM me whenever.
17) I urge you to talk to a mental health professional. I am not a qualified mental health professional so I won't give you advice. The charity Mind can help. Go to your GP. They will be best placed to refer you to NHS mental health services.
18) I am really sorry to hear that. Try to offer your brother and mother support, and have them support you. It seems like you all need professional help and support.
19) Musical talent and fame don't go hand in hand. Jeff Buckley died virtually unknown, as did Eva Cassidy. Take it as a sign of talent. Try posting songs on YouTube. I'm not an expert in the music industry though.
20) Just because you
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