Do you prefer compliment on your looks or personality?

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Reply 60

moment of truth

Original post by Leviathan1741

I never get compliments on my looks, so I would choose personality

Agree with this lol

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Reply 61

Profesh

Looks: I was a witty, but by all accounts, exceedingly ugly teenager.

Reply 62

BlueReptiles

idk why but I appreciate compliments on my personality better when I hear them directly to me but I absolutely love it when I get a compliment on like a specific facial feature eg cheekbones, jaw or hair lol.

Reply 63

HanaKimi

Most certainly on personality

Reply 64

loveleest

Original post by HanaKimi

Most certainly on personality

If that's you in your dp then your hair is amazing. :grin:

Reply 65

TorpidPhil

My looks. I think my personality is ****ing awesome, but I am still quite insecure about my looks... So it means quite a lot more for someone to compliment my looks. In fact, I don't think someone IRL has ever complimented my looks, even my dress, explicitly, other than my family lol. Boo :frown:

Reply 66

william walker

Depends who is giving the compliment.

Reply 67

TheonlyMrsHolmes

Original post by Profesh

Looks: I was a witty, but by all accounts, exceedingly ugly teenager.

Wit is like oxygen to me! :ahee:

Reply 68

toonervoustotalk

Looks
I have a nice personality in the eyes of many people :smile:

I am just insecure about my looks :redface:

Reply 69

Treblebee

Tbh, I said personality, because it means more to me :tongue:

I mean, looks are important, and I would obviously like either compliment, but I should prefer to be witty and plain than beautiful and fluffy-headed. Just saying :wink:

Reply 70

Alexion

idrk tbh...

I mean, I always value someone's personality over their looks (though that's not to say I don't care about people's looks), but complements based on my looks are always much rarer than ones based on my personality.

So from a rarity point of view, complements on looks are much more appreciated :h:

Reply 71

76787

Always getting them for my looks, so probably personality

Reply 72

Profesh

Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes

Wit is like oxygen to me! :ahee:

Personally, 'wit' occupies a position on the Maslow hierarchy immediately below 'sex'; probably no co-incidence as, being only slightly less grotesque than I was as a teenager, I find that the former typically enables the latter.

Reply 73

TheonlyMrsHolmes

Original post by Profesh

Hmm..I think it takes a bit more to enable the latter but lol I get your point XD.No, not groteque at all, don't be so harsh on yourself! :h:

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Reply 74

Mystery.

I don't get either so I can't comment..

Reply 75

Scopeowner

Looks are important, but that is a harsh judgement for someone who can't control their looks. For me it's all about a person's personality, as looks can be deceiving... :biggrin:

Reply 76

Scopeowner

Original post by Mystery.

I don't get either so I can't comment..

Awww, that's not nice. I'm sure someone will compliment both soon... :smile:

Reply 77

Profesh

Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes

Hmm..I think it taked a bit more to enable the latter but lol I get your point XD.No, not groteque at all, don't be so harsh on yourself! :h:

Well, I suspect 'a relationship lasting more than one day' ranks above 'sex' at least partly for that reason; and thank you: my end-goal is to embody at least three fetishes simultaneously, so if I can realise that aim without wholly alienating mainstream society in the process then all the better.