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Reply 60
Original post by whorace
other tips: polish your shoes, iron your shirt, get rid of the graphic t shirts, wear dark colours, quit smiling so much, don't treat strangers like friends - everyone likes to feel special! Imagine how you'd feel if someone was only nice to you!


Whorace, how do I get the girl I like?

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Original post by whorace
step 1 - body language
step 2 - verbal language
step 3 - personality

e.g
1 - posture, eye contact, take personal space
2 - clear and direct voice
3 - ask personal questions, quit the small talk, ask them what their passion is


This is obvious. He knows what to do; he doesn't have the confidence to do it.
Reply 62
Original post by RobML
Whorace, how do I get the girl I like?

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Reverse the question. How does she get you? Women have more choice than men, even average girls get an unnecessary and creepy amount of attention. It's only obvious that the man a girl will be most interested in is not someone that likes her, but someone who she likes! How do you do that? Chemistry. How do you create chemistry? Two tips: Create emotional intimacy by asking personal questions and Create clear boundaries and project status.
Reply 63
Original post by King Mal
This is obvious. He knows what to do; he doesn't have the confidence to do it.


Obvious yes, that's what's great about it

I tell you what

Go outside right now, put your head up straight and keep looking forwards (not at the floor) and wave your arms about to take personal space, you'll immediately start feeling more confident. Serious, try it.
Original post by whorace
Reverse the question. How does she get you? Women have more choice than men, even average girls get an unnecessary and creepy amount of attention. It's only obvious that the man a girl will be most interested in is not someone that likes her, but someone who she likes! How do you do that? Chemistry. How do you create chemistry? Two tips: Create emotional intimacy by asking personal questions and Create clear boundaries and project status.


I don't think I've ever heard/ read such good advice. :facepalm::facepalm::facepalm: to you whorace
Original post by whorace
Obvious yes, that's what's great about it

I tell you what

Go outside right now, put your head up straight and keep looking forwards (not at the floor) and wave your arms about to take personal space, you'll immediately start feeling more confident. Serious, try it.


I don't need tips. I'll @toonervoustоtalk
Reply 66
Original post by ravioliyears
I don't think I've ever heard/ read such good advice. :facepalm::facepalm::facepalm: to you whorace


u wot

facepalm + good advice (I'll assume sarcasm?)

women like to throw mixed signals guys :tongue:
Original post by RobML
She's on tsr if you want to talk some sense into her
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Ok will try bro!!!
Original post by King Mal
Tell me how it goess for real ok :yy:

Ok lol it will never happen
Original post by toonervoustotalk


Ok lol it will never happen


Why not? It's a good exercise.
Original post by whorace
u wot

facepalm + good advice (I'll assume sarcasm?)

women like to throw mixed signals guys :tongue:


she's just bitter about her divorce *walks you away from her*
Original post by ravioliyears
I don't think I've ever heard/ read such good advice.


:eviltongue:
Original post by whorace
step 1 - body language
step 2 - verbal language
step 3 - personality

e.g
1 - posture, eye contact, take personal space
2 - clear and direct voice
3 - ask personal questions, quit the small talk, ask them what their passion is

Will try :h:
I know how to talk to girls. Exactlt the same way as boys lol
Original post by whorace
u wot

facepalm + good advice (I'll assume sarcasm?)

women like to throw mixed signals guys :tongue:


No no no honestly. It was not sarcasm. That is genuinely amazing advice. If a guy said that to me, they'd be my new best friend - even if I don't like them.
Honestly, it really was. I would rep you but I'm on my phone and don't know how to rep via the app.

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Original post by King Mal
she's just bitter about her divorce *walks you away from her*


Oh shut up Mal XP

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Original post by King Mal
Why not? It's a good exercise.


Dont know fam
Original post by toonervoustotalk
Dont know fam


are you afraid to reflect? I'm honestly not taking the piss.
Reply 76
Original post by toonervoustotalk
Dont know fam


I have a good idea if you are really, really nervous. Take a day out in another city, get a train, go explore some places, and just chat some women up at a bar/club. What do you have to lose? No one will remember and you will probably never see those people ever again lmao
Original post by King Mal
are you afraid to reflect? I'm honestly not taking the piss.


No
I did reflect
Hense the strikethrough through never
Original post by whorace
I have a good idea if you are really, really nervous. Take a day out in another city, get a train, go explore some places, and just chat some women up at a bar/club. What do you have to lose? No one will remember and you will probably never see those people ever again lmao

True
It sounds like a good idea!!!
I did that when i went to bath during simmer
Original post by toonervoustotalk
No
I did reflect
Hense the strikethrough through never


ah well you can keep the list private but I meant results as in, if it provides any emotional relief for you.
Your issue is confidence, not lacking topics to discuss.

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