Girlfriend laughed at me for asking who this guy was....

Trust me, she's sleeping with that guy.

Wouldn't call one phone call a huge red flag lmao.

Heard her saying "I'm on the phone", and upon me asking who was that, she coyly says "its [his name]". She then tells me "why are you asking me" followed by a long pause and a sniggering laugh that really made me fly of the handle.

Are my reactions justifiable, is this a huge Red Flag and sign of disrespect?

I asked her what's she laughing at numerous times and she said she was trying to eat her food, followed by pauses and light laughing.

...my girlfriend laughed at me/sniggeringly when I asked her who she had been speaking to whilst on phone to me. Heard her saying "I'm on the phone", and upon me asking who was that, she coyly says "its [his name]". She then tells me "why are you asking me" followed by a long pause and a sniggering laugh that really made me fly of the handle.

Are my reactions justifiable, is this a huge Red Flag and sign of disrespect?

I asked her what's she laughing at numerous times and she said she was trying to eat her food, followed by pauses and light laughing. She the texts me post-call to say she felt awkward and she didn't want to talk while he was next to her.

I'm getting more and more angry as time goes on with her behaviour. Is this disrespectful of me? She knows I have anger issues, mental health worries and have paranoia (for which I've had long term ongoing therapy).

Wouldn't call one phone call a huge red flag lmao.

She is being very disrespectful. She's also clearly very immature. Give her the flick

Could it be that it is just simply a good friend she is talking to?

Sounds like a cheat.

...my girlfriend laughed at me/sniggeringly when I asked her who she had been speaking to whilst on phone to me. Heard her saying "I'm on the phone", and upon me asking who was that, she coyly says "its [his name]". She then tells me "why are you asking me" followed by a long pause and a sniggering laugh that really made me fly of the handle.

Are my reactions justifiable, is this a huge Red Flag and sign of disrespect?

I asked her what's she laughing at numerous times and she said she was trying to eat her food, followed by pauses and light laughing. She the texts me post-call to say she felt awkward and she didn't want to talk while he was next to her.

I'm getting more and more angry as time goes on with her behaviour. Is this disrespectful of me? She knows I have anger issues, mental health worries and have paranoia (for which I've had long term ongoing therapy).

The call in itself isn't necessarily a red flag, but if she's constantly being disrespectful and there are other thugs that she's doing also, that may be a sign that you need to talk to her about how you feel.

Explain your mental health issues and paranoia. If she cares, she'll try to be more accommodating

basically, she is laughing because when she is talking to you on the phone, he is kissing her neck or touching her up which is making her ticklish and making her laugh.

also, I'm sure the other guy is getting off on doing this whilst she is speaking to you on the phone

Sounds like a cheat.

Can i ask you why you are using the name and picture of a girl who was horribly murdered, how disrespectful are you?!

Her profile:

Location: Hell.

That is so disrespectful, wow...

Can someone inform a mod or something?

Comments like this make my blood boil, please don't post stuff like this, if your not serious. It's not fair to wind me up when I clearly have anger/self control issues.