Ladys and Gentlemen...
Let's look at the matter from the other side.
I believe universities and colleges are willing to get you into their facilities, best of you.
But there is no best.
A college community consists of hundreds of students and dozens of tutors.
Students are the heartbeat of a college and tutors are the back-bone; both contribute to community and are vital for balanced 'life'. Thus, if our ways doesn't collide, I mean college and mine, then loss isn't just on my side, but the bigger part of the loose cake is for the college. On the first hand if college accepts me, then bigger part of the gain cake will be tasted by the community, because I'm giver and students, tutors, and college and university will not fail to receive my contribution and support and I will get answers on my barrel of questions.
Arrogance?
Not at all.
Just pure balance.