Im currently a second year uni student living in a shared house. I get on with all but one of the people I am living with, however this person is insufferable to live with!
Every morning I am woken my the ping of the house's group chat with a complaint about the state of the house. Apparently 2 dishes being left over night and a few crumbs on the countertop warrants the use of the word "disgusting". This I can live with because its easily ignored and at times funny to laugh at.
However, we live in a house where all bills are included, so we don't have to pay unless we go over the limit which is relatively high given the fact that its a house of seven, were only 4 members of the house are actually there all week round, with 2 actually never being in the house. Despite this she is extremely tight on the usage of heating (the only thing she can control usage of). Every time I turn on the heating it is questioned. Below are a list of examples she has used as reasons why the heating isn't needed:
1. Its the middle of the day (it was 11am)
2. Its not that cold (it was 7 degrees outside, 14 degrees inside)
3. She wasn't cold, so therefore no one else could be!
4. We need to save the heating for December, January and February.
This is frustrating at the best of times and i struggle to understand why she is so tight with bill given the fact WE DONT HAVE TO PAY THEM!
Additionally, her boyfriend practically lives here too thus making her argument slightly hypocritical given the fact that between them they probably use the most bills in the house.
Sorry for the long post, needed to let it all out! Any advice on how to approach the situation of telling her to wise the **** up!!!