I'm horny but I'm not cut out for hooking up/casual sex

So you think 16 year olds are immature then, but capable of relationships?

Any mancini please if you have nothing helpful to contribute then go and try and hurt someone's feelings elsewhere.

No it's not big I'm slim but what I mean is I could do to tone up as I have a petite and unforgiving body frame I have a bit of podgyness on my lower belly that I'm not too pleased about. Multiethnic as in my mother is white, father is mixed with black and Asian which makes me a very odd looking person

I'm 23 years old. If it's not easy to maintain or obtain is it worth the risk then?

Well 16 yr olds can indeed be immature and whether I think they are capable of being in a relationship or not is besides the point the fact is they are indeed in relationships.

I'm not sure where I have attempted to hurt your feelings feel free to point it out, I just told you I think you are immature at 23 to still be this confused and have ridiculous rules when it comes to having sex with a guy for example this idea you have that you can't have sex with a guy if he doesn't cuddle you and makes you feel a certain way, get over it. I think I am contributing very well I hope my advise helps other young women to stop acting like 16 yr olds it's not attractive.

youre grand so...hopefully youre in a healthy state of mind too. I think so but thats for you to decide not me.

with the right person its always worth it.

Well I'm not going to lie my body and mind could always do to be a bit more healthy That's definitely something that I'm working on.

I know you said getting yourself off isn't quite cutting it but have you tried toys etc? They make life a lot easier. And very satisfying. Magic wands are wonderful until you do manage to meet someone you feel comfortable enough to be intimate with, don't rush into it though.

A lot of people think that mixed race are the most attractive women.

Maybe you just need to go out more, mix with a few more guys and be a bit flirtier. Let them know you prefer chocolate to vanilla.

Do you have any hobbies? Girls with cool hobbies are attractive.

if you can't get guys, buy a cucumber

I'm sorry you're going through this stage in your life OP

then he rejected me I'm pretty burned right now so I don't think I will be asking again any time soon. No one wants to date me.

A lot of people think that mixed race are the most attractive women.

Maybe you just need to go out more, mix with a few more guys and be a bit flirtier. Let them know you prefer chocolate to vanilla.

Do you have any hobbies? Girls with cool hobbies are attractive.

OP you need to go outside and talk to people. Srs it's not difficult.

You sound like you can reasonably put a sentence together. Trust, this is enough for most guys your age.

Welcome to a mans world tbh.

If you don't have the soul or strength to persevere then the best you can do is be approachable and open to opportunities.

Or, OK cupid. Plenty of guys on there looking for deep meaningful relationships, at one point I was one.

I can get guys. I could get one tonight if I wanted to just as easily as I could go and buy a cucumber. In fact the cucumber would cost me more!!
However finding someone to actually date long term is difficult and I don't want to just be having flings all the time I want a real connection.

No wonder some mixed raced women have big heads.

Note for mods , I said some it's not an attack on all mixed women, I know some sucker will probably want to report this.

Is the feel of a penis inside you not a real enough connection? Perhaps you want a more well endowed guy.

OP you need to go outside and talk to people. Srs it's not difficult.

You sound like you can reasonably put a sentence together. Trust, this is enough for most guys your age.