I'm horny but I'm not cut out for hooking up/casual sex

Yeah well don't worry about that I'm not one of them. I'm aware most people stick to their own race.

I meant mentally wise haha Im sure some lad will like yeh however yeh look

As much as I have the urge the act alone won't satisfy me I want pillow talk and hugs as well. I'm not bothered about package size much more bother about the person attached to it.

Welcome to a mans world tbh.

If you don't have the soul or strength to persevere then the best you can do is be approachable and open to opportunities.

Or, OK cupid. Plenty of guys on there looking for deep meaningful relationships, at one point I was one.

How can FWBs be emotional? Would that not defeat the whole point? Would I not get attached?

Yeah that's why I meant when I said mind, the mental aspect. I'm doing okay but I wish I was less emotional.

Well my comment was not meant to be read as me racially attacking mixed women , I know very well there are beautiful mixed women just that there are also some that aren't and that the foolish behaviour of some men give some of these women a big head.

I also have nothing against interracial relationships, I too like women of different skin colour then me.

Well then I'm sure where this fear or idea that all a guy wants to do is insert his penis in you and bang away comes from. I can't remember ever having sex with a woman with no cuddles or pillow talk.

They can me - they have been with me. The girl I'm engaged to started as a sort-of FWB situation - I wanted to show her that she could be loved and feel good (TBF I had feelings for her anyway), and a short time after this she realized she'd got feelings for me too. Sounds very convenient, I guess, but that's how it is.

Also, sleeping with friends isn't necessarily casual - or at any rate meaningless. Or, it doesn't have to be.

I never said you were attacking mixed race women. But I think there are big head women of all races. If anything white women are told (and shown through the media) that they are the most beautiful. Every other race is an afterthought.

Well not all guys would be like you some will just do the deed and that's where the duties end.

I'm clearly living on a different planet you then. Dating is a sport especially here in London you can get tossed aside for the next for the slightest thing.

I have heard of this phenomenon but wish I knew some of these people in real life. I feel even if they do think mixed race woman are attractive when it comes to actual relationships and settling down most men want go to their own race. This is part of the problem I feel is that I don't have my 'own' race to fall back on and date I'm always an 'other'. I can't pass for any one race either I wish I could then I would just stick to trying to date them.

Yeah I definitely need to get out there more to be fair I've done enough moping now. I need to improve my flirting skills as well.

Yeah I do have quite a few hobbies and I'm really passionate about my subject as well. Funnily enough though I mostly meet women at places where I go to pursue my hobbies, and quite a few of them are not even that 'girly'.

As much as I have the urge the act alone won't satisfy me I want pillow talk and hugs as well. I'm not bothered about package size much more bother about the person attached to it.

I'm not sure how much we can accuse the media of bias, is it really shocking that a mostly white European media will mostly use white European models? I'm not sure. It's true though there are women like this from every race I have met my fair share.

As lovely of a story as that is I don't think I can bank on an FWB set up to become something more meaningful. And it sounds like you entered the situation liking her it was never 'no strings'.

I don't have any friends I can sleep with. The one that I am attracted said no to getting to know me better so how lame would it now be that the only reason I would be sleeping with him is because he didn't think I was worth anything more.

Are you talking from experience or just guessing though? What exactly is your experience?

So you can get laid, but the problem comes the morning after when you suggest to hook up again?

That often comes on the 2nd or 3rd date though. Just enjoy the sex in the meantime and it will come.

I just stated what the situation it is, I didn't say it was a bias it's fair enough to me. I was just saying that one can't say that mixed women are glorified, we are merely tokens and occasional exoticals. And yes we are a small minority.

Yes I am talking from experience. It happened twice when I was younger. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. I really don't want to strike third time unlucky.