The one thing that really annoys me the most lately is if I ask a question or say something to someone, sometimes they come back with 'that's something a 12 year old would ask, or do you not k ow that by your age'. I just think it's out of order as no one knows everything and I thought it was better to ask questions and learn than to not ask and tell yourself that you know everything. My boyfriend does it all the time when I'm relaxed and feeling comfortable I will share my thoughts and say something and he will come back with 'you didn't know that at your age' or 'that's something a 12 year old would ask'. I've even been called a retard by people.
Even on my placements as a student nurse on my last placement I was scared of asking questions/showing myself up but I thought well it is better to ask than not ask plus I felt comfortable around them. On my feedback the manager said that I was asking questions that I should already know by now. So yea I obviously shouldn't have asked. I never reach conclusions about things in my head though I will seek information over and over until I am sure that I know most of the facts, befor claiming that I know it. If that made sense lol, I don't know it's just how my brain works.
But yea I don't want to show myself up but if I don't know something that most people are supposed to know, what am I supposed to do? Like there are many famous celebrities who people talk about who I don't know and I'm just there nodding pretending I know them but I don't want to be like this I want to be honest. Am I supposed to Just not ask people and find out myself all the time.