Would you allow your 15 year old daughter to have sex in her room?

Prude.

The ends justify the means.

Those three VMs on ethics were a waste, I see.

My own line on this: Kids will be kids. :'

Can I just say(even though this has't been addressed to me, but I have been called one on this thread), right now, I don't think it's that bad to be a prude anymore if it means my child won't be having her vagina penetrated at 15 then I am the biggest prude in the world

Viddy won for a reason.


Murderers will be murderers, etc...

Typical racist Indian, then.

My team had multiple last minute drop-outs and one of the ones that stayed was a creationist who invoked Hitler and the Nazis... No way we were going to win after that, whatever I said. Also, my VMs were specifically a critique of viddy's arguments...

Killing without consent =/= safe, consensual sex.

Umm.. How is that racist. It's pretty well known that white peoples/culture attitude towards sex is more relaxed than Indian or Asian culture

All I see are excuses.


I didn't say there were the same thing. But they share a similarity in that my 15 year old daughter will not be doing either of the two.

So someone told me that she used to have sex with her boyfriend at 15 years old while her parents were home. And that sometimes he stayed over. In that moment i tried to imagine my own future daughter and I really really tried to be liberal and open minded and that but I gathered I can not in any ways allow my daughter to have sex in my house. I will probably go kill the boyfriend with a hammer and watch him die. I don't care that I'll go to prison or anything. Would you allow that to happen?

You can't be sure of that.

You're right; she might commit murder, I guess.

Like I said: kids will be kids. Their parents' socially conservative attitudes aren't going to hold them back unless you intend to never let them leave the house or interact with other people outside of school.

Disturbing to see the amount of people that are OK with this. I don't care if this comes across as harsh but if you're OK with your 15 y/o daughter getting fuc*ed in your own house then you don't deserve to have children. Absolutely spineless.

I wouldn't want my daughter OR son having sex at 15, however I'm not going to raise them the way my parents raised me- "SEX IS BAD, ONLY WHORES HAVE SEX THAT YOUNG, IF YOU DO THIS, THAT OR ANYTHING I WILL PUNISH YOU", because that makes sneaky kids who don't trust their parents and have emotional problems.
If my daughter/son wants to have sex at 15, I won't want them to because I did that and it's a stupid thing that you regret when you're older, but if I tell her she can't and demonise her or make it a taboo subject, she will end up in a park or in the bedroom of a 21-year-old without protection, and feel betrayed by her mother. So yes, I'd feel uncomfortable and unhappy, but at least my mind would be at ease knowing its with a boy I know, a boy who isn't pressuring her into anything, that she has protection and she can call for me anytime, and that she can talk to me about anything. I'd rather my certain 15-year-old daughter have sex in my house where I'm close by and she's safe, than have her resent me the way I resent my parents for demonising me for wanting to talk to them about these things, and turning to them with these problems.
So you're the spineless one. You want your kids to trust you? Trust them. You have the nerve to tell people they don't deserve kids for wanting their kids to be safe and trusting of their parents. Wow. :-)