We've been going out for over a year now.
Asexuality has always been something at the back of my mind for many years, perhaps it hasn't come to the forefront because I figured that sexuality is fairly fluid and also maybe I've been in denial.
Anyway, the other day, I asked my boyfriend hypothetically what would happen if I told him I was asexual. He said he'd be so upset that I'm not sexually attracted to him and that he doesn't think he could continue the relationship.
I reread a really old conversation I had with another TSR member about asexuality, and everything really clicks now. I'm sure I'm asexual.
This doesn't change the fact that I love my boyfriend so much and I'd be devastated to lose him. I can't imagine my life without him.
Particularly anyone who's had similar experiences, how did you and your SO deal with it?