What sexuality would you think this is?

Nicolas2000

Originally I was always attracted to just boys like I mean I had a lot of gay crushes. As a kid. I was basically gay until I hit puberty. Then I thought I was mostly attracted to men. And I was sexually active with men. It happened to be older men so in a sense it wasn't exactly consensual. In my mind though I did think that I was consenting. After I was about 15. I started dating girls exclusively. I dated a guy when I was 14/15. And then after that I started having long term relationships with girls. At that point I didn't feel like I had any preference. The only thing is like I am sexually a little different I guess. I'm basically a bottom. But I don't mind topping either. Now it doesn't have to be with an anatomic guy either. That doesn't really make any difference. Which is why I have a satisfying sex life with my gf and past gfs. But I could just as easily see myself marrying a guy as well when I'm single... I mean it doesn't really make any difference to me. I had a bf sorta before my exgf. But they were supposed to be not a guy at the same time. Like they were I guess genderqueer/agender. I have also always liked lesbian porn. And I have a lot of fantasies with having sex with like 4 people or more at the same time. I've always had like dreams about being sandwhiched. Also I have never found a transwoman very attractive. And I've never been turned on by one. I've said I was pan because I don't normally have any preference on a partner but I've never actually been attracted to a transwoman. Or a transsexual I just don't really have apreference with male or female. I have watched gay transguy porn and I kind of got turned on but that was to do with the fact that the actors were born biologically female. I usually notice guys as attractive but I always notice a beautiful woman as well. Anyhow what sexuality is this? bi or pan or what?

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 1

Jsohau

Sounds like Bi to me, isn't Pansexual including trans? or just another word to make you feel like a special snowflake, call yourself what you want

Reply 2

Alexion

17

That is a lot of sentences wowza

Honestly I wouldn't be able to put a label on it, but does it really need one? I guess you'd be bi since you're attracted to guys and gals, but that's a broad spectrum in itself...

Reply 3

Nicolas2000

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Original post by Jsohau

Sounds like Bi to me, isn't Pansexual including trans? or just another word to make you feel like a special snowflake, call yourself what you want

I thought bi meant you had a preference for male or female.

My exbf would call themselves trans... But they weren't a transwoman.They didn't identify as a woman. I'm attracted to people as long as they don't have you know like the hormones I guess. Like breasts and a dick kind of weirds me out a bit. I was still attracted to them because their body didn't have anything altering it.

Reply 4

Jsohau

Original post by Nicolas2000

I thought bi meant you had a preference for male or female.

My exbf would call themselves trans... But they weren't a transwoman.They didn't identify as a woman. I'm attracted to people as long as they don't have you know like the hormones I guess. Like breasts and a dick kind of weirds me out a bit. I was still attracted to them because their body didn't have anything altering it.

A Transsexual is "a person who emotionally and psychologically feels that they belong to the opposite sex."

Bisexual is liking both Males and Females

Heterosexual is liking the opposite of what you are

Homosexual is liking the same as what you are

anything else is people wanting to 🐝 a special snowflake

Reply 5

username2365021

14

You don't seem to understand the difference between gender and sexuality.
Since its about attraction and sex, you're bi sexual. It's not a big deal, it might be a stage (sorry if that's offensive but a lot of people for through a bi thing and think their bi).
You seem attracted to men and or women but not gender so thats bi.
Sex is: Male, Female
Sexuality is: Straight, Gay, asexual, pan, bi
Gender is: A lot... inc Cis, trans

Well done, achievement unlocked i suppose

Reply 6

Nicolas2000

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Original post by Jsohau

A Transsexual is "a person who emotionally and psychologically feels that they belong to the opposite sex."

Bisexual is liking both Males and Females

Heterosexual is liking the opposite of what you are

Homosexual is liking the same as what you are

anything else is people wanting to 🐝 a special snowflake

I know I'm not homo or heterosexual. I just wasn't sure between pan and bi. That's all.

Reply 7

Nicolas2000

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Original post by Steampunk_Turtle

You don't seem to understand the difference between gender and sexuality.
Since its about attraction and sex, you're bi sexual. It's not a big deal, it might be a stage (sorry if that's offensive but a lot of people for through a bi thing and think their bi).
You seem attracted to men and or women but not gender so thats bi.
Sex is: Male, Female
Sexuality is: Straight, Gay, asexual, pan, bi
Gender is: A lot... inc Cis, trans

Well done, achievement unlocked i suppose

Well I've liked men and women for a long time. It's not just a phase.