So, for those who'd say
ooh, it has nothing to do with you ...or .. it's none of your business ... This is a grownup issue, let your parents solve their own problems ... Bla bla bla .. then please just leave for god's sake and don't comment as I'm already having a bad day, I just really want some good and helpful advice!!
So my parents have been married for 36 years, and I'm the eldest (16 y/o) of 7 siblings.
For the past couple months, mid-2015, my father has been acting a bit strange in sense that he could be seeing someone else. He changed his mobile password and doesn't want anyone to touch his phone, including my mum.
Incase if you're wondering, we have this policy in our house were we all should know each others passwords, so it's a normal thing in my family, I mean we all knew my dad's password for ages, it's just that my dad never had anything to hide from us..
My mum was also a bit suspicious (my mum and I are very VERY close, I'd tell her everything and she'd also tell me everything that's going on with her, we really have this strong bond between us)
So last week on Saturday, I woke up at 6 am and felt a bit hungry so I was on my way downstairs to the kitchen. As I was going down, I could hear my dad talking on the phone in a really soft, gentle tone or romantic should I say. I'm being completely honest here, you see my father is that type of person who'd change his tone when he's talking to different people, the way he talks to my mum is COMPLETELY different to the way he'd talks to his friends, you get what I mean, so I felt like he was talking to a woman on the phone, but wasn't quite sure until he ended the call with
love you, I'll talk to you when I'm out..I love my father from the bottom of my heart, he has done EVERYTHING for me, my siblings and my mum.
He'd buy me anything if I asked and would always tell me to ask for more.. but the fact that he has "cheated" on my mum behind her back, just makes me wanna hate him.. I haven't told my mum anything, cos I wasn't a 100 % sure yet ...
.. till 3 days ago when my dad went to the toilet in the living room and forgot to lock his phone. So I immediately went through his messages. I was completely in shock and in tears cos all this time I kept telling myself that it's not true and that I was exaggerating.. but boy I was wrong.. So I decided to write her number down so that my older cousin could track her down.
We found her facebook and she's only 7 years older than me. I'm afraid to tell my mum because she has always been a housewife and wouldn't be able to manage if they separated. and if I keep my mouth shut, I'd be really depressed, (but I already am now) .. And don't think I'll pass my AS levels in that state.. I don't want my mum to be living a lie for the rest of her life.
I just felt the need to remove the burden off my chest..