Lesbian/Bi-sexual ladies, when did you realise you liked girls?

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Reply 20

Josb

Original post by Hydeman

I think I know who this is. :h:

Not difficult. :tongue:

Reply 21

shawtyb

Original post by ivy.98

Loool you cheeky Ollie :mmm:

whats an ollie lol

Reply 22

Anonymous #3

Original post by ivy.98

Loool you cheeky Ollie :mmm:

omg was that a dog reference :innocent:

omg i love you soo much :lovehug:

xxxxxx

Reply 23

Anonymous #3

Original post by shawtyb

whats an ollie lol

a dog i'm trying to adopt :smile:

Original post by SeanFM

You may be 2 years younger but.. :hubba:

stay away from her sean :indiff:

she is all mine :colone:

xxx

Reply 24

ivy.98

Original post by shawtyb

whats an ollie lol

Its an inside joke dw :tongue:

Original post by Anonymous

omg was that a dog reference :innocent:

omg i love you soo much :lovehug:

xxxxxx

YESSS!

awwww ly2 <33

Reply 25

EllainKahlo

Always did, just ignored it for the most part. Religious upbringing and whatnot.

Reply 26

Blondie987

I think I kind of realised that I had feelings for girls when I was about 15 but didn't come to terms with it till I was about 18 but looking back there were probably a couple of signals tbh, I didn't have crushes on any specific girls throughout school but I did have crushes on boys which was confusing lol. :biggrin:

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 27

The_Lonely_Goatherd

Original post by Anonymous

Well, I'm 17, I have always found other girls beautiful but I've never really wanted to go in that far, maybe because of my strict and religious upbringing. I was always a little curious, but never serious.

Lately I've developed a crush on my friend, she is Bi-sexual, I can't help but feel I am. I day dream about having a girlfriend now, I definitely want to fall in love with a girl.

What's your religious upbringing, if you don't mind me asking? Religious upbringings can make these things even more difficult than they already are. I'm a practising Roman Catholic, so you have my sympathy on that front :console:

I only started questioning my sexuality aged 21 (am 27 now), because I had a psychodynamic uni counsellor who was obsessed with telling/convincing me that my real mother never loved me and that I was sexually attracted to my mother figure :erm:

I didn't - still don't - believe him but it did obviously lead to a lot of questions and soul-searching. I've only accepted and started self-defining as a lesbian in the last two years (though I'm not sure it's an exactly accurate label, but it's what is easiest/best for now), though I am still very much in the closet due to various factors :yes:

Reply 28

supernerdural

When I was 14, I kinda came to the conclusion that I didn't care whether people were male or female, I was just gonna like who I like. I doubted myself for years and then came to the conclusion that I am a bisexual aromantic 😊

Reply 29

Anonymous #5

Since I was in my early teens. I've been to a girls school pretty much my entire life and have developed various crushes, just hurts to know that I could never get close to them as they were all straight and because I was Muslim and most of my friends were from conservative backgrounds I could never tell them. I like guys too, but when I looked at females who were hot, I wouldn't think "oh I wish I was them", more like "I wish I could be with them".

Reply 30

murakamami

I realised in year 6 and admitted it to myself in year 10 :redface:

Reply 31

Anonymous #6

I think when I was 18 I realised I was bi. I'm scared to come out of the closet thought because one of my best friend is a lesbian and hates bi girls :frown:

Reply 32

acupofgreentea

I'd always been friends with this girl in school, but suddenly, we started becoming really close and I developed - what I can recognize now as - a serious crush on her. I didn't realize this, though - I'd been raised to think there was no other option than straight (I was aware you could be something else, but I wasn't taught about it in the most favourable light), so I just kind of ... remained oblivious, which is bewildering to me now. :laugh:

And then, I stopped seeing her and, without her there, all of these feelings kind of came to a head and I was sort of like, "Oh, s--t." I was about fourteen at the time, I think.

Looking back, I can remember other little signs, but that was the turning point for me - well, it was followed by years of denial and trying to figure it all out, but it was the first time I can pinpoint that I acknowledged on some level I may like a girl.

Reply 33

lolakirk

Original post by Davalla

Subbing because every girl on TSR seems to be bisexual or lesbian.

No disrespect; you lot make great porn.

You do realize that 99% of women in lesbian porn are heterosexual, right?

Anyways I was about 9-10.

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 34

Josb

Original post by lolakirk

You do realize that 99% of women in lesbian porn are heterosexual, right?

Source?

Reply 35

Remi Mag

Original post by Anonymous

about 3 years ago. Had crushes on girls inrl and celebrities, thought they were just 'girl crushes' until i realised i had no male crushes and that my feelings went further than just appreciating their looks whilst the idea of sex with men appals and disgusts me. Repressed said feelings until a few months ago but got fed up of that and no longer censor my thoughts about girls to myself although i'm not 'out' inrl only on here :redface:

You are not completely out on here either , your post is anonymous.