Eating out with another woman

Why didn't you mention that in your initial post?! No not cheating.

Hm? No it's actually a female friend I've known longer than my girlfriend. I just stopped by and she was cooking and hospitably offered me food, I'm 24 and have adult friends who cook and want quality convo and company, sue me ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ lol I'm annoyed that I can't have female friends, and then without being accused of f*ckery.

We weren't "going out to dinner" lol it was a homecooked meal; going out to dinner sounds like a date O_o

Ok thank you. It really was just casual but substantial convo and a quick meal. It's not even about the location which was her flat, it's the general insecurity. When I was getting hollered at and interrogated, she only mentioned the fact about it being with another woman. Not where we were, tbh I can't even remember if I even was able to get that far into the story to tell her lol

JFC MAN change the title

Is it cheating?

Now I know there's a common definition for cheating. And then the definition you establish with your partner. I get that but I want to know what neutral parties think.

I'm talking about catching lunch/dinner etc with another woman.

Issa poll. Vote.

Someone mentioned emotional cheating. Which women came up with? lol I'm old school, if we're not having sex shut the hell up.

Guys and girls can be strictly platonic together so I can't see why it would be classed as cheating. It's just spending time with a friend.

With that kind of attitude your girlfriend has, you're gonna be accused of screwing around whether you have female friends or not :|

I'd suggest finding someone who has a similar thought pattern to you, but at the end of the day it's your choice whether you want to continue dating her or not

oh idk lol but you see my point now?!

If you don't hide it from your significant other ! AND both parties at lunch know the deal (i.e - PLATONIC) it should be no problem...

Yea yea... Your initial post made it seem like you guys went out on a romantic dinner.

But I'd feel some type of way if someone else made my man dinner, I'd be bitter too lol but it's not that serious to be dragging it on.

Yea well I don't know her thinking until we stumble across things like this so you're right about where do we go from here. It's not...that deep yet but...it went from 0-100 too quick for something like that. And now she's beefing with my friend which is disrespectful.

lol i see well...¯\_(ツ)_/¯ wasn't made for me per se I just...came round at the right time.

Its not cheating. Although it depends what this dinner is.

imo
having a ONE on ONE dinner
sounds sus.
you two could be feet-fondling underneath the table.
best you go with a group of friends, why does it need to be alone?