about 3 years ago. Had crushes on girls inrl and celebrities, thought they were just 'girl crushes' until i realised i had no male crushes and that my feelings went further than just appreciating their looks whilst the idea of sex with men appals and disgusts me. Repressed said feelings until a few months ago but got fed up of that and no longer censor my thoughts about girls to myself although i'm not 'out' inrl only on here xx
That's the first major step, though. Being able to come out to yourself - that way, you can spend some time getting used to the idea on your own terms. Once I realized "Hold on, I can acknowledge this in my head without anyone else having to know just yet," it started the process of me coming to terms with it and being able to - eventually - come out in real life.
Also, I heard what happened, hope you're doing okay.
That's the first major step, though. Being able to come out to yourself - that way, you can spend some time getting used to the idea on your own terms. Once I realized "Hold on, I can acknowledge this in my head without anyone else having to know just yet," it started the process of me coming to terms with it and being able to - eventually - come out in real life.
Also, I heard what happened, hope you're doing okay.
Attempt to invalidate bisexuality 0/10.
yeah i guess idk what changed really just thought one day 'i don't want to do this anymore' as i stared at yet another boy to see if i could fancy them that is true, gives you time to work it all out in ur own head, it would be a bit much if you were trying to accept it as well as all those around you can i ask how long it took from internal acceptance to 'coming out', i'm almost definitely gonna wait until uni aww bless you <3 yeah i'm ok, if i wanted to come back sooner they wouldn't stop me but i have stuff going on atm and am just starting my AS art project so i wouldn't have much time anyway xx thank you lovely <3 x
I think when I was 18 I realised I was bi. I'm scared to come out of the closet thought because one of my best friend is a lesbian and hates bi girls
If that's the case then she shouldn't be your friend and she sounds like a bad person if she hates someone for their sexuality that's as bad as homophobia
yeah i guess idk what changed really just thought one day 'i don't want to do this anymore' as i stared at yet another boy to see if i could fancy them that is true, gives you time to work it all out in ur own head, it would be a bit much if you were trying to accept it as well as all those around you can i ask how long it took from internal acceptance to 'coming out', i'm almost definitely gonna wait until uni aww bless you <3 yeah i'm ok, if i wanted to come back sooner they wouldn't stop me but i have stuff going on atm and am just starting my AS art project so i wouldn't have much time anyway xx thank you lovely <3 x
Don't use so much emojis if you want to remain anonymous.
If that's the case then she shouldn't be your friend and she sounds like a bad person if she hates someone for their sexuality that's as bad as homophobia
This is true. The gays who hate bisexuals are exactly like homophobes, they are prejudiced towards someone because of their sexuality. I always tell the bihaters that if they were straight they would be homophobic.
I realised I was lesbian watching Emma Stone in Easy A. That was my 'holy crap I like girls' moment. Afterwards everything just fell into place and I realised how incredibly obviously gay I had always been!
Looking back as an 18 yea old on my childhood, it has always been apparent, even from as young as 10, but I didn't truly know till I was about 13/14 when I realised I fancied girls in my year and I became interested in watching lesbian films.
If that's the case then she shouldn't be your friend and she sounds like a bad person if she hates someone for their sexuality that's as bad as homophobia
She's had bad experiences with bi girls using her as an experiment and dumping her for men when they are done.
She's had bad experiences with bi girls using her as an experiment and dumping her for men when they are done.
That doesn't mean she can generalise an entire sexuality group, those individuals may have used her but that doesn't count for every bisexual person and as your friend she should support you especially when she should be someone who can truly understand you. There are plenty of negative assumptions made about all members of the LGBTQ+ community but the vast majority of those are based on ignorance and are completely untrue. I can understand why she may feel like that but surely she knows you well enough to want to be friends with you and would realise that even though you are bisexual, you're not like the people she has known. Sorry, you're having to go through this but you do deserve her support, regardless of her views.
yeah i guess idk what changed really just thought one day 'i don't want to do this anymore' as i stared at yet another boy to see if i could fancy them that is true, gives you time to work it all out in ur own head, it would be a bit much if you were trying to accept it as well as all those around you can i ask how long it took from internal acceptance to 'coming out', i'm almost definitely gonna wait until uni aww bless you <3 yeah i'm ok, if i wanted to come back sooner they wouldn't stop me but i have stuff going on atm and am just starting my AS art project so i wouldn't have much time anyway xx thank you lovely <3 x