Ex Girlfriend Keeps Texting Me

You know her personality more then me. Personally I would think if anyone cared to keep you in their life they would be more direct, " hey can we talk", even give you a ring instead of a text.

Why was she so unsure that she wanted to be with you?

She's really stubborn is the issue.
Well the thing is when we first set off on the trip to new york she was positive she wanted us to sort it out and get back together, then we had one argument about it when we were there after a really good day together and all of a sudden she just switches off and decides "i don't want to do this anymore". This was on and off for the rest of the trip, on the plane back we were really good with eachother, then she goes away, has her space and decides that she can't be in one yet. I took her answer and told her I couldn't be friends with her and went to leave her alone, until she started sending me these messages?

I don't understand why it's so difficult lol... It really shouldn't be. That should tell you guys something.

If you want to risk getting your heat hurt again, call her on a unknown number just incase she's on the " hah, he's calling me" my time to ignore him tip. And talk it out. But it really shouldn't be this hard.

Neither do I, I feel like i'm just better off walking away and letting her do the running if she wants to, but talking to me like that isn't going to get anyone anywhere. If we were to talk it out when I ask her I feel like she'll just be how she was with me over text last night, immature and unproductive.

But if you really want to be with someone or miss them that much, surely you'd just contact them?

Are you referring to her or yourself?

Her, i've already done my running and i've just been treated like crap. All she ever did was shoot me down at every single turn. I don't feel like I have anything left to say to her and i've just been leaving her alone because I'm respectful like that.

If i contact her I feel like she'd just ignore me anyway seeing as i've been ignoring her.

So whys this so hard for you?

Im in your sitiation sometimes talking dosent help silence is better message than speaking.. As it gets the message across.. People soon come into realisation but i think you should just focus on you and forget her mind games becuse she i clearly winning.. In the future things will be clearer

She used the phrase "pal request", I'd suggest staying as far away as possible

What's more, she knows I hate that word. Always have done. Done on purpose?

Sounds like she's trying to get you worked up so that you'll reply. Either keep ignoring her (feel free to block her on social media) or just send her a quick '**** off' before doing so

Any reason for her trying to get me worked up so i'll reply??

Because she's a bit looney in the head?